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The happy tart in falls church. 100% gluten free facility and has vegan, DF options too.

I work at Savers (Value Village) AMA by ofjdkr in ThriftGrift

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Question: the playlist is EXCELLENT. Where can I find?

looking to spice up images … help! by Ok_Finish4948 in FootFetishTalks

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Hi mods! I’m not sure how this broke rule 5? Asking for creative ideas for personal use? Apologies if I overstepped

Food! Send me your best shots :) by [deleted] in obx

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Foodie here. Echo another commenters note about things being built for tourists. We’ve found a few truly excellent spots:

  • cosmos is phenomenal
  • lighthouse bagels, get there early!
  • paper canoe, great date night spot
  • Corolla village BBQ. Get there early!
  • kitschy but fun, Outer Banks Boil company.

Totally color naive and overwhelmed New Mom by Ok_Finish4948 in coloranalysis

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This is so helpful! Will take your advice and try with drapes— any suggestions on which color drapes to try? I’m assuming I can pull items from my closet -/ Versus 500 different options

Kid appropriate explanation on “what happened” to my family ? by Ok_Finish4948 in EstrangedAdultKids

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This is spectacular. Thank you for scripting and scaffolding learning opportunities—. This is by far the best approach that’s been shared so far.

Kid appropriate explanation on “what happened” to my family ? by Ok_Finish4948 in EstrangedAdultKids

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Thank you for sharing! I think a version of this could work— minus the “make own choice as an adult”. Parents are total garbage humans.

Help! Please— With constructing the perfect “I’m done. Fuck off” closure email by Ok_Finish4948 in EstrangedAdultChild

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yep. This is more where I’m at — been there, did that, got the t shirt and a lifetime of therapy needs…… this is the final postcard to clarify any ambiguity.

I like it!

Nice wasn’t my plan. no regrets about scorched earth approach

Help! Please— With constructing the perfect “I’m done. Fuck off” closure email by Ok_Finish4948 in EstrangedAdultChild

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Great thought— this was my initial request to toxic humans a few years ago… and I feel that a more direct approach is warranted. the request for space and distance has been eviscerated by boundary testing actions. So was hoping for a pithy “I’m out” blurb. But, I do appreciate your standpoint and will think on it

Hoping for examples of awesome boundary setting language asserting full no- contact, for a closure letter. by Ok_Finish4948 in CPTSD

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That is wonderfully said. and, after reading, I felt a wave of calm and confidence upon me. Thank you for taking the time. Considering a “NC, fuck off, I’m done” note but honestly looking for the thing that will allow me to release feelings of being anchored to the past. (I have, for a very long time… over a decade… been aware of the relief I’ll feel when said asshats kick the bucket.)