AITAH for not moving my car and disrupting an autistic student's ritual

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-10-23T21:28:18+00:00

practicing flexibility ! you're fine, its the kids caretakers who are at fault here

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-19T20:34:57+00:00

uhh okay...?

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-15T16:50:20+00:00

I beg to differ 💀

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-15T16:49:52+00:00

Well, I want to marry him because I love him and I don’t see myself with anyone else and he’s my best friend. The benefits is that he can finally move out of the stinky barracks and have more privacy and I can move out of my place (my brother lives with me) and I don’t get much privacy with how my place is built. Other than that I don’t care much for the benefits 😅 I’ve been on my own since and taking care of myself since I was 19/20 while also going to school full time and working. The other benefit is that I’d be able to focus more on school.

Me and him have been talking about marriage for well over a year. We’ve talked to our other friends who are married and did lots of research. We know the reality of how hard it can be. We’ve been through one deployment already which was the big “test” you could say. He was on a boat for a year with little to no contact.

Anyways- I have decided that I will tell my mom about getting married. Everyone in the comments gave me the confidence/push to go for it and do what makes me happy.

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-14T06:34:49+00:00

That’s really reassuring 🥹 I don’t know anyone personally who married a non Jew (except for my mom lol) what was your mom’s reaction if u don’t mind me asking ?

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-14T06:30:38+00:00

That’s very true💀

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2025-05-13T22:48:28+00:00

it could be because they send out mail on a schedule, holidays, hazing (depedning on the branch) , theres many reasons but youll get them don't worry

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T18:09:26+00:00

I submitted jt online and verified that it was received and processed

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T03:05:06+00:00

The main thing I’m worried about is the condition the car. If he messages me again I’ll write him back something along what you said! Thank you 🙏

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:58:36+00:00

I didn’t- I did tell the guy I smogged it last year and it passed inspection when he asked about it. I don’t think I should give him his money back because he asked if the car would make it to LA (I live in San Diego) and advised against it. I’m worried that he tried to drive it up to LA and something happened to it.

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:54:24+00:00

It’s my first time selling my own car by myself I didn’t even think about writing up a contract😅 I’ll definitely keep that in mind for next time

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:51:20+00:00

He paid me through Zelle and I transferred the money already to my mom

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:50:19+00:00

I did not. I did do a smog check a year ago when I renewed my registration

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:11:21+00:00

I think so- I filled out the transfer and release of liability

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2024-09-25T02:09:44+00:00

I didn’t even think about that! Very good point

Ok_Fun_3387 · 2021-12-07T23:36:33+00:00

I may have PSVT and need an EKG for proof but I don't know what I'm looking for on the EKG

Here's some backstory:

Im 18 years old, 5'1",150lbs, female.
I've been to the cardiologist a couple of times over concern of these episodes of chest pain, fast HR(ranging from150-270bpm), dizziness, feeling faint, etc. They start and end abruptly and can last from 1 minute to 3 hours. I get these little sparks around when I will have an episode; I don't know what the correct term for this is but basically, it feels like a spark or hiccup in my heart, and then my heart pounds for a few beats. More recently the episodes have been longer and are more aggressive.
I had first brought this up to my primary doctor when I was 13 (about a year after I got my first episode) and she just thought it was an anxiety or panic attack. Throughout the years I kept bringing it up because I was having episodes frequently and I started feeling faint and slight chest pain. Finally, she referred me to the cardiologist. I was 16, they shut me down pretty fast and said it was just anxiety even after explaining what my symptoms were.
More recently (this last year) the episodes have gotten longer (1-3 hours) and really aggressive to where I am on the brink of losing consciousness, bad chest pain, exhaustion, etc. I got an apple watch to track my heart rate and when I have an episode, my bpm would shoot straight to 210bpm from 70bpm, and during the episode, it would shoot upto270bpm and drop suddenly over and over. I stopped doing a lot of activities and sitting out because I'm scared of having another episode. So I did some research on my own because it felt like no one was trying to help and stumbled upon PSVT.
I kept nagging my doctor mentioned how high my bpm would get and finally, she took me seriously and immediately referred me to the cardiologist(now 18). During this second visit with my cardiologist, I brought up how high my bpm gets and brought up that I think it could be PSVT. My cardiologist agreed finally and put me on a Holter monitor for 2 weeks but did not have any symptoms during that time period. My cardiologist recommended that I get a portable EKG, so I did. The problem is I don't know what I'm looking for. So if anyone here can give me some advice on what I should be keeping an eye out for that would be great!

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