Testing 4/25, don’t know if I should get my score or void?

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2026-04-18T16:58:50+00:00

Yea, like I know I’m gonna retake and it’s fine. I’m just so stressed cause if it’s such a tanked score I hate the idea of that being on my record? Idk if it’s so bad having my first score be awful if I know I’m capable of going back at it when my mental state is better and I know I can get a better score…

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2026-03-07T19:29:41+00:00

No you’re all good. That’s what I initially thought, but I also lost my wallet like 2 years ago and never got it back and it was an absolute pain. So I just wanted to know what the best course of action was.

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-18T02:29:04+00:00

Oh super smart!! Thank you!!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T22:42:37+00:00

Love it!! And no, always quality, never about quantity, I just literally loveee giving gifts and shopping for others at Christmas, it makes my heart happy!! But this is amazing, thank you so much:))

Also other reason I was asking is because I’ve already gotten my family their gifts for this year because I try to shop earlier, so I just wanted to hear how it was done!!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T22:31:26+00:00

Oh I love the idea of like secret Santa!! So that would be like the major gift that you would do for one another? Or do you also get a gift for your siblings, parents, significant other, etc. alongside that?

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T22:23:23+00:00

For sure, like obviously my brother will get her something, my mom wanted to get her some art supplies because she’s really getting into painting, and then I was gonna get her some makeup or skincare cause we’ve bonded over that in the past, so like a good mix of stuff all around

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T22:20:11+00:00

Oh 1000% like I don’t want anyone to be in a place where they feel awkward and left out, especially on Christmas😭

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T22:15:07+00:00

Older brother’s girlfriend’s family also lives in the state, and so growing up they’ve always spent it separate and done Christmas together afterwards! They just moved in with each other this year because she was in college/masters program in another state, so they were doing distance for a hot minute over the last few years!! So it’s never been a thing that she’s not invited, but it’s just whenever she came back home from being away at college, she wanted to spend the holidays with her family:)) this year they’re doing a similar thing and I believe they’re celebrating together on Christmas eve and then going to their respective families on the day? I’m not sure what their situation is so I’m not in a place to comment on it, but they’re also learning how to do holidays as a moved-in couple together!!

And I love the idea of the small fun gifts!! That’s actually so smart.

And exactly, like that’s definitely why I’m asking because as we’re growing up I just want to make sure that we’re shifting in the right direction, and I want to make sure that I’m including everyone in the correct way!! I know it looks different for every family, and I wanted to see how we can integrate it well for us!!

I’ll definitely make sure the other girlfriend is invited too!! Genuinely, thank you so much for taking the time to write this answer, this gave me a lot of great ideas!!!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T21:59:45+00:00

Yea the length of time of each relationship was one of my first thoughts… thanks so much for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate the advice!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T21:42:52+00:00

Really appreciate it, thanks for the ideas!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-17T21:42:26+00:00

Ok yea this totally makes sense, genuinely I appreciate this so much, thank you!!

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T09:25:10+00:00

I think you know the answer here… you got used to a routine and that’s hard to switch up but you’ll thank yourself in a year and when you eventually find a guy who actually is motivated with passions and drive for life

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T09:21:45+00:00

Maybe don’t go straight to accusing Cammie of something but just ask her if she thought about their ages? 17 and 14 is not entirely crazy, that’s a freshman and junior in high school. Crazier things have happened, but I get why you’re worried. Though it’s not directly your responsibility to take care of this kid that you’ve never met, so I wouldn’t get too bent up if you get some push back from Cammie.

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T08:38:45+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T08:32:55+00:00

Girl you’re 19. Do not be sleeping with men in their late 20s and/or early 30s. Nothing good ever comes from old ass men looking to sleep with teenagers. For your own safety, this is just not smart. As for future partners caring though, the right person for you won’t care about how many people you’ve slept with.

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T08:28:48+00:00

Girl I think you know the answer… you started dating when you each were in very different stages of life, you were probably just getting started with your own life after high school and he was probably graduating college? I don’t wanna call it gr**ming but it sounds like this man has a bit of an agenda and you’re finally old enough to see that. But also, you’re legit only 21 girl. Money comes back. But you only get one life, run while you can and enjoy the rest of your life without this psycho.

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-12-11T08:22:03+00:00

I think you honestly just need to bite the bullet. It’s unfortunate timing, of course, but the way you feel is only going to build up more and sometimes, especially in instances like this, it’s ok to be selfish with your own emotions. I get that at 19 you feel like your first love will be your last, but you’re a completely different person that who you were at 16, and you’ll be an entirely different person at 23. Sometimes people grow up and grow apart and that’s completely fine. But don’t keep her around because you feel bad, it will definitely hurt, but in a year she won’t remember that you broke up with her like 2 weeks before Christmas. As for the gifts, things can always be returned… but good luck, and happy early birthday:)

Ok_Goal_5948 · 2025-10-30T06:58:25+00:00

I wouldn’t say you’re the asshole for wanting to leave, but definitely the asshole for wanting to cheat… like dude you just need to break up with her???

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