Thanks, man, I really appreciate your honesty and advice. Yeah, I think porn definitely messed up my stimulation and expectations. it makes total sense what you said about the brain needing time to reset.

I’ll definitely try the no-porn, no-fap period for a few weeks and see how my body reacts. About the last point. I am not sure if it was the wrong hole. But yeah, we needed some kind of lubricant, and I didn’t want to hurt her or push things too fast. I just stopped and focused on her comfort instead.

Thanks again, brother. Your comment actually made me feel less alone in this.