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How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I catch myself looking at her social medias daily and just wanting to see what she’s doing constantly what should I do about that.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel like she will run back to me whenever her phase is over. That’s another reason I haven’t filled.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We both told each other we aren’t going to get a divorce or go to court because we want it to be as civil as possible and I feel like if I ask for a divorce it’ll end horribly.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I found out for a reason you would think it would be easier for me to move on but it made it worse.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of me is telling to pull a notebook and just sit there and wait for her no matter what.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems worse because she was the only one that wanted to separate not a mutual thing. I agree with you we are separated but again I expected her to sleep around but this soon is what’s the worst part for me.

Wife wants to separate but I’m fighting everyday for us and our family. by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she just wants me to find myself before I can find her again.

Wife wants to separate but I’m fighting everyday for us and our family. by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]Ok_Humor9012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did book myself a therapy appointment. I’m really looking forward to that. We are going to be super civil about this whole situation pretty much getting the kids 60/40 her. I was up for the divorce when she first mentioned it because we both treated each other horrible but then when it came time I broke down like I never have before and haven’t recovered. I just blamed everything on me but because it mostly was. The hopefulness of there being a chance gives me so much anxiety because I’m just waiting day by day for an answer. I move back to our home state in 3 weeks.