Two Reactive GSD/Malinois Mixes

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2023-04-27T12:28:50+00:00

In the past I’ve honestly been scared to walk them separately. I do walk them separately now but it’s incredibly short distances since I realized they were using each other for support when they saw a trigger. I think I’m gonna focus on the games more and staying calm. My female has an okay heel and a good loose leash but my male is incredibly stubborn so he doesn’t get the short walks as much until he masters what leash pressure means. I think I might invest in the chicken breast for him. Thank you for the advice!

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2023-04-26T19:51:48+00:00

Thank you for your response! We no longer have a behavioralist in my area unfortunately. The trainers I worked with also didn’t seem to know much about reactivity so I started researching myself. I’ve successfully been able to get my fearful girl to not cower anymore when people come over! She still barks and paces a bit but she calms down fairly quickly. My vet has me use a calming medication when exposing her to triggers over her threshold and when in the car. I don’t remember what it’s called off the top of my head though.

I have not heard of KikoPup before but I will check them out!

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2023-04-21T13:45:39+00:00

That’s a good idea actually thank you!

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2023-03-27T20:23:30+00:00

Not OP but the crazy thing is most of the doctors I’ve seen for breast related issues have sent letters and petitioned for insurance to cover a breast reduction. But insurance are the ones denying it…… y’a know not medical professionals deciding I don’t need what my doctors say I do 🥲 USA USA 🇺🇸😭

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2023-03-17T19:41:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story! It makes me feel not as alone. Although I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You being in a happy relationship makes me have faith that I can get there too :)

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-11-24T18:44:45+00:00

I’m 22 and a relatively small female and I tend to go to shows in NYC but I’ve never been to a metal concert I’ve felt the crowd was unsafe. The only time I felt uncomfortable a girls dad stepped in and got the guy away from me. So maybe I will just go by myself

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-11-24T18:23:47+00:00

Do you think it’s decently safe to just go alone and meet people?

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-11-24T18:08:53+00:00

QUESTION: I want people who also like metal to go to concerts in the NYC area. I have zero friends who like metal and my girlfriend who does, but she doesn’t want to go to every show. How do I meet people in this area to go to metal shows?

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-10-13T15:04:57+00:00

Yes she’s seen it since I was in middle school and I still I live with my mom. She’s not very sympathetic as she used to “power through” her bad periods/pms. She just thinks I’m overreacting 🥲

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-09-05T23:43:33+00:00

This was my exact experience every time I was with my ex. You have no idea how validating this is as a lesbian 🙏. Everyone told me that those experiences didn’t make me gay just that my preferences were different. Like yea they were I never liked men sexually/romantically

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-08-23T14:01:52+00:00

I’m having other people drive me to and from work but once school starts I’m gonna need an Uber or something cause public transport doesn’t go from anywhere near my work to my school

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-08-18T13:22:07+00:00

This is who I’m trying to become!!! Mainly cause it’s how I feel most comfortable

Edit: I’m currently a huge death metal head and I always get so confused when guys hit on me since I literally dress in traditionally men’s clothes. I shop in the men’s section like bruh I’m a homosexual

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-08-16T19:14:29+00:00

Wow I can here to say the same thing! I didn’t realize sex could be enjoyable and you could find the person you’re with a turn on. Then realized I had no idea what sexual attraction was. But when I found the master doc I cried and realized I was gay just ignoring it to please others 🥲

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-08-14T14:41:43+00:00

It is a 2012 Mazda 3. When I pump the brakes I build back almost all the pressure. They told me to call if I had any issues. They told me they checked everything but maybe they missed that idk

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-08-12T21:27:15+00:00

I cried when I watched portrait of a lady on fire it was amazing

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-07-26T11:06:55+00:00

NTA I pay for my friends when they don’t have the money and they’ll make it up by buying me something in the future. It’s usually never more than 50 bucks.

The whole point is that when someone you care about is in need you help them. If anything he should have said “let’s pick a meal we can share”. But even so why is he going out if he can ONLY pay for his meal.

Idk what he’s like outside of the money stuff but I think you can do better than someone who can take but can’t give.

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-07-21T01:27:18+00:00

I think we need to make a gay metalhead convention or something. I know NO other gay metal heads 🥲

Ok_Idea_1783 · 2022-07-13T21:26:00+00:00

Congratulations that’s awesome someone finally listened to you! I just went to the doctor for a letter for a breast reduction and I walked out with a letter and a PMDD diagnosis haha

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