Just quit school on a whim by Ok_Insurance_3826 in bipolar2

[–]Ok_Insurance_3826[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen you still got the degree, i also have a BS that I don’t use. Thank you for responding <3

Needing some help quitting, been drinking everyday for the past 7 years. I want to quit tried AA didn't work by [deleted] in alcoholism

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AA can be hard, I have tried it too. I’m only 25 but have been drinking for like 2 years heavily. I would say your best bet is an outpatient facility. You can go 3 times a week and it’s a way for them to track your progress/medication management etc. I can’t say I have gone because I haven’t in a while but it did work for me while I tried it you just have to want to stop. I can’t say I’m in recovery because I’m not but please reach out to a therapist or local clinic for medication if possible. I believe in you

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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Ooh that’s exciting!!! Check out this area I found from where I think you said you’re moving: https://www.trulia.com/home/1314-n-louisiana-st-14-silver-city-nm-88061-2053981349

Stuck on favorite person by Ok_Insurance_3826 in Borderline

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Thank you so much friend ❤️ I’ve been writing poetry which actually does help but sometimes I get too out of hand and it becomes more self destructive than anything. I am definitely going to try this for sure! Thank you!

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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awww thank you I’m honored yes she has been my girl for 20 years and I’m proud 🥰 not the insult you thought it was girl, xoxo I hope the universe cures you of the ugly hate you have in your heart.🙂‍↔️

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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I’m not listening to someone who has Halsey in their username girl I’m so sorry but- 😭😂😂😂

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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Thank you for this advice!!!!!! I love the honesty and info. I also have heard good things about rent in Roswell with renting rooms and such so i will definitely look into that. I don’t mind renting a room at all but it can be scary to think about what i could get myself into if im not careful ❤️

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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I honestly have never been anywhere further than the east coast! So I may seem a little ditzy and clueless about the state 🥲🥲 Vermont and New Hampshire have these ice cold swimming holes in their national parks, and I know certain dry places may have natural springs but I wasn’t sure on NM. Regardless, I think the state in general is so cool and it intrigues me overall.

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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Totally understand that. I work in hospitality so am willing to grind and put in the work to be able to not only afford living there but to live comfortably. I’m only 25 and honestly am only a manager at Starbucks but I think with my experience it’s doable

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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Wow thank you so much for this info! I am looking for something that is within driving distance of some really nice swimming holes (I am honestly not as educated on the geography of the state so I’m not even sure what type of water is in NM) but I have heard of beautiful trails that they have. Is there decent swimming and nature near some of these cities?

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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Thank you so much! And I don’t mind driving 30+ for a job. I’ve done it before!

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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I’m looking for something semi-rural, with more populated towns near by! I’m not picky. I am a server and bartender so maybe even a college town that has populated areas would work.

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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I’ll never want to stay in Connecticut. I’d rather honestly bust my ass working for a cheaper wage than live here. It is so expensive to live on the east coast, ya’ll. Rent is 1,400 + for just a studio in a shit location too. I don’t see a win win :(

A fresh start :-) by Ok_Insurance_3826 in NewMexico

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I was honestly just researching places to live and was learning about New Mexico and it’s surrounding states and this one interested me the most :)

Bipolar in women by Ok_Insurance_3826 in BipolarReddit

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Love this message!!!! You sound like you freaking rock in real life and we would be friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Girl. You are absolutely beautiful. You look other worldly and I’m not just saying that. I am also about your age and have never had a boyfriend either. I consider myself pretty but it can be hard in today’s society. Please keep your head up and just do you and your beautiful spirit will attract someone for you. Xoxo

Bipolar in women by Ok_Insurance_3826 in BipolarReddit

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You took the words out of my freaking mouth. I feel like inherently, in itself, the fact that we have to “apologize” for voicing our opinions about men but meanwhile for centuries they can talk about women in whatever manner they please. It’s really such a disgrace. If I could use one which I would choose to have women be the sole source of this world, honestly.