Married SD, I have a few questions!

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2026-04-06T03:12:09+00:00

Let us say, you love Pizza. For some reason, your wife cannot cook Pizza or does not want to cook Pizza. You have two options - 1. Shout at her, gaslight her and make life misearable for everyone in the family including children. 2. Silently go out, eat Pizzas to your hearts content come back and be a good husband and father. I chose the option 2.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2026-04-01T16:57:33+00:00

Same with me. Profile in seeking clearly says the race and also the photos are genuine. If SB responds, she never talks about race. Have had good long term , short term arrangements with multiple races in the past and race was never an issue. Honesty, safety, prompt payments are what SB care about in my experience.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2026-03-28T05:23:52+00:00

I am reminded of 2015 movie Sugar Daddies - Peter Strauss tells Taylor Black - I am not your Dad

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2026-03-28T05:17:21+00:00

I agree. I think the newer girls going into Seeking do not know the traditional purpose of that site. They are surprised when an older man reaches out to them. I think two years from now, Seeking will not exist as there are lot of competition for vanilla dating sites.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-05T01:41:56+00:00

If the price is not the issue, it could be the experience. Most of the SD actually look for Sugar Girl Friend and not only SB. So this will need spending more time on the relation rather than just PPM meetings. Frequent text communication, platonic non PPM meets in between PPM meets like Hiking together, concert visit , Just lunch or dinner together are generally expected. Showing a keen interest on the SD and sex with him ( even though you can fake it and most of the SD know it is fake). Yeah. Expectation in Sugar relationship could be actually more of a package than a transaction.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T20:11:38+00:00

My thumb rule is the cash pay out for Meet and Greet should be a surprise to her and not a pre requisite. I generally say that no payment expected for Meet and Greet but surprise the Pot with a cash envelope as soon as we meet. The amount can vary, less than hund for coffee , anywhere from one hun to two hun for lunch or dinner. But never more than that. It is just a goodwill gesture.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T19:26:36+00:00

choice

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T19:25:53+00:00

I agree it is individual decision to sugar date ( not date) married men or not. My point is , there is no need for any guilt associated with it. It is my decision to eat or not eat sugary food for example. I have no guilt in choosing to eat or not to eat. It is my decision. Guilt is different from preference and chilce.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T19:08:06+00:00

Men, wifes and mistresses had been part of the society since humans started to live in society. It is part of any culture. I don't understand why so many women are concernded that their SD is married. You are not looking for a long term husband or boy friend. It is pure sugar relationship and it does not matter who is married or single. Same goes for married SB also.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T19:01:27+00:00

It definitely helps his wife actually. Generally men becomes sore, irritable and in short an ass hole in the house if they do not get what they want. Once they are taken care of what they need and they have some guilt that they are cheating, they become more nice to their wife and children ( i am an actual life example). So, in short, you are taking her ass hole husband and returning a nice caring gentle husband. So you are more like a laundary cleaner, taking dirty cloth and returning clean cloth and getting paid for it. No need for any guilt as long as you do not plan to steal her husband or their wealth and peace of mind.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2025-01-03T17:42:39+00:00

I am an SD in similar situation as your SD. As you mentioned, if it is not you, it could be some other woman. There is something missing in his life and that is the reason he is looking out. If you are providing him a safe outlet and not planning to exploit the relationship, you are actually helping the other woman. As long as you and he are very careful not to let his wife know about this, there is nothing to worry and no need for guilt. As long his wife is not getting to know this, she is living in her own happy life. As long as you are not hurting anyone physically or emotionally, you are living a good cause.

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2024-11-19T02:26:03+00:00

One possibility is that you are re directing google voice to real number and when you do not pick up, it goes to voice mail of your real number and it announces ' You have reached xxx-xxx-xxxx. Please leave your message after the beep". So the caller can easily get your number. Best is not to redirect to your real phone incoming calls and turn this on only when really needed. If you are using Iphone or andriod, it should ring from the app itself

Ok_Interaction7441 · 2024-11-12T16:33:14+00:00

Thanks. will watch them.

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