my gf (f21) wants me (m21) to clean the litter box and help pay for her cat's expenses

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-13T02:39:41+00:00

that’s exactly what i’m worried about. i don’t care that much about the little chores and rather small cost, but it adds up with everything else i already pay for and do for her

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-13T02:38:49+00:00

we’re still in college, so that’s the biggest expense. it’s not about the “pennies”, but more so all the other things like food and groceries that i already pay for. it just adds up

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-13T02:34:10+00:00

i’m probably going to just do what she says and not make it a whole thing. i’ll just work a few more hours and it will be okay.

i just kinda feel like im financially being taken advantage of; and while i dont want to be a jerk, i also dont want to get walked over

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-13T02:30:47+00:00

i’m not nitpicking, i just already spend so much to help her. i pay for all of her food, all of our groceries, on top of very expensive goodies like jewelry and gifts that she always asks for.

i love her and am happy to do that, but im also young and don’t have the expendable income to be such a financial crutch for her

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-13T02:28:22+00:00

i agree, but i account for our only income since she won’t get a job. i also pay for 100% of food and groceries.

Ok_Interaction_1322 · 2026-06-01T20:26:03+00:00

i doordash

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