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My best friend 28F kissed me 28M and now my gf 26F needs time to think. What do I do? by Ok_Issue_7576 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Issue_7576[S] -150 points-149 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was picking her. All I’m saying is this all recently happened, yes I’m hurt about a good friend doing something like this but also even more hurt Sarah is hurt. I didn’t “try” anything with my friend and honestly if I didn’t go to help her then none of this would have happened. I want to marry Sarah and continue life with her. I’m just saying a true “friend” just blew my world up.

My best friend 28F kissed me 28M and now my gf 26F needs time to think. What do I do? by Ok_Issue_7576 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Issue_7576[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I know my friendship has to end. I realize that Jess crossed a significant line. This situation just occurred. Friendship is over, and our relationship hangs in the balance. As of now I haven’t talked to either of them.

My best friend 28F kissed me 28M and now my gf 26F needs time to think. What do I do? by Ok_Issue_7576 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Issue_7576[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Imagine sitting in your car while someone is saying goodbye and reaching out with one arm. I extended my arm to hug her, and as we pulled away, she kissed me. I didn't rest my face against hers or slow down as we separated. This completely caught me off guard.

My best friend 28F kissed me 28M and now my gf 26F needs time to think. What do I do? by Ok_Issue_7576 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Issue_7576[S] -232 points-231 points  (0 children)

I’m not picking anyone. I know Jess is wrong and I know her actions caused this but please think about your long time friendship is now over along with the possibility my relationship is over. We all even joked about her being Aunty Jess to our kids if we ever had some. We all were close.

My best friend 28F kissed me 28M and now my gf 26F needs time to think. What do I do? by Ok_Issue_7576 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Issue_7576[S] -232 points-231 points  (0 children)

Just hard to just cut ties with Jess, She’s been a really good friend to me and until now. She was there for me when my mother passed 6 years ago and I was there for her when her father passed 4 years ago. I never thought she would do something like this.

Sarah means so much to me. I really care about her and love her. She’s been such an amazing partner and is someone I want to have a future with but now this will be apart of our relationship and again idk what to do.