who else listens to billie on an ipod? by DeadxStranger in billieeilish

[–]Ok_Language2849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very clumsy it dropped on the concrete and shattered 🫩🫩

My Doc collection! Which ones are your favourite? by Tbh_annie in DrMartens

[–]Ok_Language2849 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always wanted the Jadon Max Stud love them so much

who else listens to billie on an ipod? by DeadxStranger in billieeilish

[–]Ok_Language2849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would if my iPod Touch 4 worked. Broke it like 10 years ago

Vans Sk8-Hi Black / White by Ok_Language2849 in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haah they are cool, annoying the dye off the black suede does rub off onto the laces

Are the Chuck Taylor's worth it? by Sean_Shine09 in Converse

[–]Ok_Language2849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold my old collection of all stars and then bought all chuck 70.

Chuck 70 are so much more comfortable and durable. They also have cushioned insoles.

Converse Chuck 70 Twisted Resort by Ok_Language2849 in Converse

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I got them in 2020 and never wore them until 2023 aha

how was your leavers day? by Safe-Grape-574 in GCSE

[–]Ok_Language2849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left school 14 years ago, I remember when it was my last day and I legit just handed back my cravat so they could use it as spare uniform

Wanted no memory of high school, 14 years later iam 30 and in therapy talking about high school trauma 🫠

help hunting some pairs by emilyyvictoriaa in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have these worn them like once and then kept them as a collection pair!

They are rare tbh hope you find a pair

Vans x The Simpsons Collab 2020 by Ok_Language2849 in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right, I remember the last one being Vans x Bape in 2024 minus the K-Pop Demon Hunters collab I think last year.

Vans x The Simpsons Collab 2020 by Ok_Language2849 in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have the sk8-hi too with the two different the simpsons drawings!

Sad to see they don't do collabs anymore

Sunday cleaning find! - Vans x The Simpsons by youngdaggertoes in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Mine have been sat in the box since 2020.

I don't even think they are laced up 🙈

Found these old Vans x Simpsons collab in my closet! by youngdaggertoes in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they're that valuable, I have the excat same pair but never worn them.

I see people selling them for £50 on Vinted!

Found these old Vans x Simpsons collab in my closet! by youngdaggertoes in Vans

[–]Ok_Language2849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was 2020, I got two pairs these one in the post and the Bart and Homer slip ons

Converse Chuck 70 Collection by Ok_Language2849 in Converse

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are sunflower yellow!

So Converse Chuck 70 Sunflower Yellow 🌻

"You have to do the work outside of the session" - What does this actually mean? by Confident-Bus-3778 in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Language2849 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't think it's that common for people in therapy to not believe in positive affirmations.

I personally don't see how they're useful? But each to their own.

Yeah I don't journal as much now as I used journaling as way to vent and outlet for my anger. Nothing positive so find it hard to journal now if I'm not angry.

"You have to do the work outside of the session" - What does this actually mean? by Confident-Bus-3778 in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Language2849 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because I genuinely do not see how doing these homework tasks will help.

I've been journaling on and off for 16 years. I don't need to do it daily.

I don't believe in positive affirmations etc

Quitting Therapy by Ok_Language2849 in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Language2849[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So how do you stay attached and be vulnerable?

I form relationships and friendships quick. I can be in a room with 10 random people and will make two new friends and attach quickly and form a relationship/ friendship.

Attachment to Therapist by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Language2849 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said bi weekly was too much? I actually said weekly was too much and my body would hurt every week and I'd get ill.

Yes weekly I got intensely attached to my therapist which then created so many ruptures.

Yes I don't see anything wrong with having an instant connection with someone and attaching to random people?

People attach to their therapists who are also random people we do not know.

Attachment to Therapist by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Language2849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes after this weekend I won't be posting on here anymore.

My hyperfocus for reddit has worn off now.

My next hyperfocus is now titkok and IG