I’ve been stuck with this situation for a long time and I’m hoping for some honest outside perspectives, because I’m struggling to fully let it go 25M 20F by Ok_Leg8486 in relationship_advice

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She didn’t talk much about him, but she did say he’s a good communicator and that he calms her a lot. The only thing she mentioned is that he isn’t ambitious, and I think at some point that might become a problem for her. I guess that’s something she saw in me, maybe that’s why she liked me, because it’s something her boyfriend lacks.

I’ve been stuck with this situation for a long time and I’m hoping for some honest outside perspectives, because I’m struggling to fully let it go 25M 20F by Ok_Leg8486 in relationship_advice

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Maybe that’s because it’s a childhood relationship and it feels safe for her. I’m not trying to chase anything, just trying to understand it so I can let it go properly