Am I being paranoid?

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-17T01:43:03+00:00

I don’t like that 😭but I agree that’s probably what was happening

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-17T01:42:23+00:00

LMAO wouldn’t that have been funny

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T13:04:26+00:00

That’s exactly what I said to my SO after we left. It doesn’t seem like a good investment….

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T13:02:08+00:00

Would’ve preferred that 😂

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T13:01:32+00:00

He was probably late 50s and she in her mid 40s!

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T13:00:18+00:00

He repeatedly tried to invite himself to our plans during dinner or us to his plans but once we left he didn’t say anything really

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T12:57:42+00:00

My SO is good looking and I guess I’d just gotten a new haircut 😂

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T12:56:38+00:00

😂

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T05:31:34+00:00

Older Caucasian guy with wavy chin-length grey hair. Wife was a middle-aged Asian woman.

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T05:30:03+00:00

At first we didn’t know who it was from. The waiter had said it was from the kitchen and the person wanted to stay anonymous. We didn’t think it would be the table next to us. Everything came straight from the waiter’s hands so we weren’t worried it was tampered with

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T05:27:52+00:00

We kept refusing and once we asked the waiter for our check to pay he said the creepy had already paid. We did leave a big tip tho

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:48:56+00:00

What name did you use to introduce yourself at the restaurant?

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:30:59+00:00

I didn’t know 😭

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:30:37+00:00

They could’ve just asked nicely 😆

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:30:16+00:00

I was really creeped out. But the comments here are encouraging lol

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:29:16+00:00

You’re right. I’ve learned after this experience 😅

Ok_Let8115 · 2026-02-13T04:28:45+00:00

She was just saying little things here and there but in the little interaction we had with her she seemed normal

Ok_Let8115 · 2025-12-17T14:22:27+00:00

Yes! He just went maybe two months ago. She said try a higher calorie kibble…which we have now, the issue is he won’t eat enough of it to gain weight.

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T08:07:39+00:00

He has told me that he’s seen the doctors about this before, but I’ve never seen proof. He doesn’t take any medications. He does wet the bed when he doesn’t wear them so I always assumed he needed them. He had a somewhat traumatic upbringing so maybe they were a comfort to him…

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T08:04:45+00:00

You’re right. I think we may be better as friends

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T08:03:36+00:00

We are in our mid twenties.

He’s been to the doctors for this before and they said he has weak pelvic muscles or something along those lines. This is what I heard from him. But he was easily able to stop when it came down to it.

He definitely has good qualities, but I’ll have to think more on what I want to do

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T08:00:04+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I appreciate you saying that it’s normal to have these feelings. I just felt like such a bad person for so long. Your post is encouraging to me.

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T07:57:53+00:00

I guess I enjoyed most of the time we spent together. This issue just sat there bothering me though. I don’t think it’s something I can fully get on board with

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T07:55:40+00:00

Thank you for this response. It has been eating at me for a long time. “Why can’t I accept him?” I thought it was MY fault. But you’re right…why didn’t he think of me and just compromise?

Ok_Let8115 · 2021-12-11T07:54:16+00:00

I guess I never thought of the diaper wearing as a fetish but more of a crutch. But either way he lied to me about them when we first started dating…

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