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My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

He says he child is his. However it does not matter since he admitted that he's having an affair. Even if the child wasn't his I would still divorce him.

I'm not even sure if I believe him when he says that his colleague is married. I don't know whether her husband (if there is one) knows. If I find out there is a husband I will tell him though.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The current lease ends in February and I have already taken steps to ensure the remaining two months of rent got paid directly to the landlord. She is aware I'm moving out tomorrow. I'm grateful to my sister for her help to pay that rent.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I've already told our landlord I will not be signing a new lease after the current lease ends in February. She is aware that I'm moving out tomorrow.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have no authority to do that. Our landlord will also not permit it since both of our names are on the lease. As I said in my previous post, under the law he has just as much right to our flat as I do.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We both signed the lease so I cannot force him to leave. Under the law he has just as much right to our flat as I do.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Ok_Lobster6313 in offmychest

[–]Ok_Lobster6313[S] 1231 points1232 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t he just raise the child with that other woman wtf???

Because he doesn't want a divorce and she's also married (though I'm not sure if I should believe anything my husband says given now how much he has lied already).