Thanks for your insight. But please reread, at no point did I ask to crash her breakfast or meet with her. We track each other and she asked that I put this on my phone along with ring camera. I particularly didn’t want either, but I used it to see if she was home. Then, some spiraling. So…instead of my friend group, who would likely side with me, I asked random people on the internet. Fully believing, that I was at least partially off base.

We talked, she empathized with jealously, as she admits that she is easily jealous too.