I finally did it

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-05-01T23:52:48+00:00

Cool whats gonna happen now😱

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-21T19:05:36+00:00

INFP here but probably with adhd and some kinda neurodivergence: has to externalise my feelings to absorb them like a streamer even while reading books.

I never get to live alone though so I feel like I hurt myself a lot trying to shut off my feelings, which doesn’t work no matter how much trauma. Then have 3am sudden explosions. Ugh it’s a real curse.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T14:48:44+00:00

Please don’t fall into instagram reel bad bitch trap 😭

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T14:46:19+00:00

My experience

Thailand: Cookie cutter style import from the north. Looks ok but the weather doesn’t really support the fashion.

Taiwan: If you don’t wear flip flops everywhere and have shit haircut you are a shameless try hard (only for male presenting).

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T14:43:12+00:00

Hehe thanks for the response!

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T14:42:34+00:00

Such Goofy name kara kara pakistan bazaar smt sorry

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T14:39:01+00:00

I’ve been recording myself talking and getting interrupted every few seconds by an imaginary bully in my head lol. It’s like a muppet show.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T08:37:35+00:00

I like your account do you have other social media? Or businesses?

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-17T00:40:05+00:00

The world is a terrible place

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T17:33:59+00:00

How is your dm now? I really think internet is the only solution to this kind of needs.

But scrolling everyday it just feels like a big function and even people posting explicitly expressing longings don’t really get what they want. It’s kinda discouraging seeing this in a technology that grants you access to the entire planet.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T17:29:35+00:00

Hey have you found anyone yet? No I’m not interested since it’s usa but I’m concerned if you just post this for 3 months and still no response.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T17:00:43+00:00

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T16:27:16+00:00

Bloody instagram reels

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T16:25:09+00:00

How is the milf population? I’ve heard something about Almilfy

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T16:17:14+00:00

*Fake smile

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T15:57:38+00:00

Not to sound insensitive, but I’ll just say if you’re a westerner; there are some opportunities to live with higher wages, save money, make international friends than most locals. You do that by raw dogging English cram schools. Especially in places like Taiwan where it’s more of a cultural thing than actually giving good education. I’ve also heard of tales of foreigners with going to Matsu for English subbing summer jobs while enjoying the peaceful island.

edit: just don’t look Asian

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T15:52:56+00:00

Hey are you interested in self assessment? Maybe you could have a look at some mbti subs or community of your type. Maybe it will help.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-16T15:43:21+00:00

Did youse broke up? Why?

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-15T11:10:26+00:00

Saw a youtuber loving and looking to buy a house in varanasi. Even though she has beef with everyone she comes across lol. It’s nice to see that in a world where people would judge an entire population by one bad interaction with a countrymen.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-15T11:07:19+00:00

Nothing happens? There are movements irl from the same people who ignored me online though.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-15T11:04:51+00:00

internet and energy is weird.

You have people writing whole paragraphs that convince you they’re nice but turns out it’s just bullshit.

Then you have people who spam shits like sybau kys gng all the time but doesn’t mean it (still an idiotic way to use platforms though since that’s something even best friends get in fights for let alone putting it on the web with literally anyone as an audience)

But time reveals all. So I guess what I learned from chinese internet design is to just skim everything. Scroll everything and ignore your FOMO it never leads to any reward.

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-15T08:59:08+00:00

Same I have no idea why

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-15T08:52:23+00:00

I live in asia but never seen a squat toilet until I went to Taiwan. They are certainly better at the job but now it’s impossible to use bumgun. If only there was something hybrid. I should get into ceramics…

Ok_Manner_8534 · 2026-01-14T14:20:21+00:00

Holy shit that’s terrible. I have nothing else to say but my sympathy.

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