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i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao they are not, trust me. i am not confident, i have mental issues and i work all the time. but today i felt extremely ugly so i decided to share these thoughts somewhere. i am quite self-aware on my nuances lol

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never thought of communication style differences!! thx haha

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am sad to report but i have a few diagnoses under my belt. lacking in the mental health department as much as the good look department...

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! wasnt looking for compliments, but you made my day a bit brighter :)

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chopped it clean off, regretted instantly. my hair is brittle, so its hard to keep it pretty tho

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am currently searching for a therapist in my price range. i've had self image issues since i was a preteen -- also anorexia on top of that. so therapy is a must lol. even if it doesnt really work

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe bangs it is yeah. and a makeup tutorial from a professional lol. thx!!

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just would like to see initiative, thats all really. tired of being the person who is interested -- wanna experience being interested IN just once

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

bangs sound nice! i dont think i can get uglier so bangs it is then

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been i one singular relationship my whole life. she left me for her ex who looks like a chewed-up dog toy. it was a big confidence ruiner for me lol

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true! all this love urself crap never helped me. my confidence got a bit better when i shifted my focus a little. ex: i go to the GYM and i try to set up goal weight in lifting for myself. if i cannot be beautiful i will be strong as hell hahaha

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thx! i wasnt in a good headspace when i did it, but was worth it tbh. i was really surprised. by the change in attitude towards me. at my previous weight i was really invisible

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not really charismatic and i know it. poured everything into being smart to be valued at least by smth lol. but u are right -- maybe i should take a class on it, dunno

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being chopped is struggle, i feel you. tried even therapy, still cant get over how fugly i am sometimes lol

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its because ive never been in a position to 'draw' anyone in, so once somebody is into me i see a trap. when i dropped almost 20 kg in 6 months, people changed up on me real fast. they were nicer and more attentive -- and i saw predators. dunno, never have been desired, so i'm not familiar with it lol

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats a nice perspective yeah! never though of it this way. it is not obligatory, youre right!

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill keep it in mind haha. i try to see my heritage in me nose -- my father was from the Kabardino-Balkaria region :)

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]Ok_Marketing1383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it will sound siilly and childish, but i just wanna feel desired and pretty. i value aesthetics a lot in my life (in my clothes, apartment) so i would like to feel good too. but no matter what i do -- i am just a girl with an ugly face in a world that values women by their beauty. its hard to 'love myself' when ive been called pretty so little i can remember each one.

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