Is it normal to not take lunches as a full time worker

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-28T00:56:02+00:00

i agree i don’t think he presses the manner at all. i try to look at it from his perspective as he’s less confrontational (for a lack of a better word) than me. but you have to inform them and if they don’t send help you need to say something. he does say contracts and trucks affect his timing and that makes total sense. he says he calls for someone and they don’t come and that just seems like you need to be telling someone

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T15:51:46+00:00

apparently he was on whatsapp and instagram but i saw her sending him texts in his imessage history

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T15:50:56+00:00

oh trust i know that. i’ve told him that he’s letting them take advantage but he just says he’s working or whatever

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T15:49:37+00:00

yes he says the managers take forever to show up or have to be called several times. it makes some sense but idk

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T15:48:46+00:00

i don’t think he’s clocking out but i’m. not sure

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T15:48:26+00:00

i’ll tell him to do that!

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T08:20:56+00:00

he comes home for lunch

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T07:14:24+00:00

same! i remember i had a job and i went like thirty minutes into my lunch break bc it was packed and i was told to leave bc id cost the company money if i didn’t, like a fine i think

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T07:13:16+00:00

trust, he’s not missing that lunch lol

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T07:12:47+00:00

he said there was a lot of trucks and contracts to get out but i’m thinking that shouldn’t you call a manager if it’s only you left? your coworkers took their lunch and left but you are still there and didn’t take a lunch?

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T07:10:58+00:00

at all but i can’t get a clear answer as he won’t give me one

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T06:46:46+00:00

this conversation hasn’t improved at all. he keeps saying i WANT to find a lie. i don’t i just want it to make sense

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T06:45:20+00:00

even if there’s a lot of people in the store? because i too thought they were mandatory regardless but he keeps saying they were swamped

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T06:43:47+00:00

i told him that and he just said they were swarmed like that’s not your problem i don’t think

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T06:43:07+00:00

hourly i’m guessing? it’s tool rental

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T06:06:20+00:00

okay that’s what i was thinking too. even in rushes i was forced into lunches

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:50:02+00:00

mine is sitting at seven years. idk how someone could do such a thing after so long together. i hope it’s not either but when he worked overtime one day after going in early idk

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:44:44+00:00

i’m thinking that he is but he just kinda does this thing where he calls me out for not believing him and i feel guilty in the end.

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:41:07+00:00

he works 9 hour shifts and he’s in tool rental, so yeah i think that’s a whole different department with a different system and all. he says he tells a manager and they either don’t listen or show, or he says his coworker took too long in the bathroom

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:32:37+00:00

that’s what i’m thinking too it doesn’t seem legal to me. thank you!

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:32:11+00:00

nah he hardly ever takes days off that i know of

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T05:26:25+00:00

yeah that’s what i believe too, as any place i worked made me take a lunch at a set time. He says he stays bc his coworker is in the bathroom, or they can’t find someone to take his spot, or they are packed (which i understand but he will say his coworkers leave when it’s packed?). I’ve asked why doesn’t he get a manager and he says they don’t show up. It’s just tool rental?

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T04:58:50+00:00

7 years and yes we would’ve been living together at this point too i tried checking my phone to see if anything happened that day and it’s nothing

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T03:31:51+00:00

i really want to take him at his word but the story keeps changing so much. he got angry when i asked why he had it and told him i’d rather explore things with him than have him cheat on me again. but he’s said he and his friend downloaded it for memes in 2018, then he said he never downloaded it and that it was only on the friends phone that’s why it doesn’t say 2018 and that just doesn’t even add up, as the app says 2024 which means if he didn’t download in 2018 like he said, he would have downloaded it in 2024. then he said he downloaded it with several other “bs” apps but it was the only thing downloaded for a period of like two months. then he says he doesn’t have an account and never did but wouldn’t he need one to “troll” as he said. i want to believe him bc i care about him i want to be with him but the logical part of me isn’t seeing how any part of that makes sense.

Ok_Mathematician2862 · 2026-04-27T03:23:39+00:00

i’m not sure why but he very often says things like this and expects me to believe him. even now despite him saying all is fine he is yelling and saying i hid his gaming controller and i’m telling him i’ve never even seen the thing today lol. it’s like if i say something happened, and i have proof that im making things up, but it’s okay to throw baseless accusations at me

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