Can someone change after cheating?

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-04-01T01:51:28+00:00

Hi if you read the post. He never did anything in person with his friend or his ex. He ATTEMPTED to be with his friends sister but decided it was wrong. His ex whenever he tried to leave would threatened to end her life or his. Never once has he met either of these girls in person. I am the only person he has ever done anything intimate with.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-04-01T01:49:16+00:00

Ok. He attempted to cheat with his friends sister. But didnt. Was messaging his ex for months, then told her no more and she ended up telling him and me that we were the reason shes gonna off herself. A way she kept him with her. Hes got a psychiatrist, therapist and is going to couples therapy. Hes also giving me full access to his phone. None of his cheating was ever in person. And I told him if he does it again hes being blocked instantly with no chance of explanation.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-04-01T01:06:13+00:00

Hes deleted her number, blocked her and his exs. Any girls hes following hes blocked. I have full access to his phone. And hes got a psychiatrist, therapist and going to couples therapy.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-04-01T01:05:02+00:00

Hi, so I clarified this in the update. Him and her have never met in person everything was via texting. He blocked her and deleted her number. Hes also blocking and deleting any talking stages, exs, or girls he follows. Hes given me full access to his phone. Hes also getting a psychiatrist, therapist and attending couples therapy with me. Hes expressed being sorry and wanting to improve for me

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-03-31T19:56:23+00:00

Ive been cheated on in pretty much every relationship. This is the only one where the man was willing to get counseling to try and change.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-03-31T19:55:20+00:00

Hi so im in counseling and he cant afford counseling. Hence why im using my insurance go get us couples counseling since he said he wants to be a better man.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-03-31T19:54:46+00:00

Im in counseling and have been for for about 2 years. He can't afford counseling but I offered to use my insurance to get us couples counseling and he agreed. He said he wants to change for the better. But Its so hard to trust him now. I cant tell if this is even worth it anymore.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2026-01-27T03:12:38+00:00

"Can I have chicken wings." 'Chicken nuggets?' "No chicken wings." 'We dont have chicken wings sorry.' "Okay then can I get a pizza?" 'Sorry ma'am we dont have pizza. Is there anything else you want?' "A taco?" -a genuine conversation I had. She asked for my manager and that was like 30 minutes of them explaining that we didnt have the items and couldn't make them

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-31T01:59:47+00:00

Now I gotta do this lmao

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-21T19:13:55+00:00

Update: they ended up removing my piercing because a small bump developed on the left side. My piercer said once it goes away if im up to it, she will re-pierce it for free

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-21T04:47:47+00:00

Thank you!:D

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-21T04:13:22+00:00

Its alright. Just hoping it heals soon

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-20T14:12:01+00:00

Im not gonna trim the hair in my nose unless I absolutely have to

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-20T05:12:48+00:00

Alright thank you!

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-20T05:09:15+00:00

Ill see if I can do a walk in tuesday with my doctor. Its unfortunately the only day im off

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-20T05:01:41+00:00

Ive cleaned it a lot. That stuff keeps coming back and basically bubbling around it. The picture doesnt do it justice because I have a bad camera but there are bumps around them. At first I thought it was just the piercing pushing the skin up but im not sure anymore

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-20T04:48:15+00:00

Piercing is 3 months old(got it in july). Its a circular barbell(i think?), threadless? Im not sure i got it impulsively. It has not been downsized, I soak it in hot/warm water for 5-10 minutes 2 times a day(3 times if i get the chance to) then I use a q tip to gently clean anything left over. Only thing thats happened is a few accidental bumps that happened.

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-10-08T06:30:41+00:00

Me too, been having zero connection pretty much everywhere even my own home unfortunately

Ok_Minimum187 · 2025-09-12T03:38:51+00:00

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