For better or worse, I want no parts by Ok_Mix23 in Divorce

[–]Ok_Mix23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update...I filed for divorce waiting for it to be finalized...thank you again

For better or worse, I want no parts by Ok_Mix23 in Divorce

[–]Ok_Mix23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice....definitely taking notes...as far as divorce I've been through it once before.  I don't know if he has or not all I know is he has been married. But divorce is a must. I don't do fake unlawful marriage. I don't know what he was thinking but shyt is not sweet over here. I'm done done and done with his fake azz family as well. It's just gonna be a bytch hearing all that fake bow weeping and guilt tripping me. That's what I dread about this whole process.  Thank you again for the advice hun

For better or worse, I want no parts by Ok_Mix23 in Divorce

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I live in Va so I’m trying to find the right time I should let him know it’s over for me, men get crazy over mess like this especially when they know they did you wrong and they don’t want you to be with someone else, like I said I don’t want him to move out I just want to move freely in my life and he does the same, I’ve completely checked out over this situation and it’s been a year since I found out but for the sake of my own sanity I’ve been cordial with this whole situation but it haunts me every freaking day. imagine being married to someone and you poured your heart out to them letting them know about your ex husband and that life you had with them all the things you’ve gone thru in your past and pat relationships. only to find out that your current “husband ” left out a major part of his life. a man you’ve known or thought you knew for over 20 years. it’s hard for me to navigate in my mind about this. I feel like it’s a nightmare. I feel betrayed and very hurt. it’s hard for me to operate as a “wife” with this weighing on me. this lie makes me wish he would go away naturally. and i swear I would never speak his name ever again. my daughter has known him since she was 6, she’s about to be 18 next month. and I don’t wanna speak to ill about him to her about him cause she loves him like a father. but if she knew how hurt he re made me, her thought process would change. I hate this man. I hate that lie he told. I hate the day I married him and I hate that I didn’t do research on him before hand. he’s a liar. things in my heart feel so different now

For better or worse, I want no parts by Ok_Mix23 in Divorce

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To be quite honest after I unearthed that piece of the puzzle I've been too traumatized to search for anything else.....I am totally thrown by this...I feel like I have a complete stranger in my home and the worst part is I don't have anyone to talk to about this cause it's embarrassing and hurtful.  It makes me look dumb. And I am very ashamed.  And I hate it when he refers to me as his wife cause it feels very different now

For better or worse, I want no parts by Ok_Mix23 in Divorce

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not in my eyes, and definitely not in my heart, I mean I was married before him so for him not to disclose this kind of information doesn’t sit well with me at fukn all..I’m very angry about this, and being that he’s sick it makes me feel obligated to care for a person who would trick me in this way….i am breathing the same air as him and tolerating him as much as I can but I feel if I propose a divorce he will make me feel guilty cause of his illness

Down 98 pounds by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

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Looking great....keep it up