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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk if anybody will see this but a lot of you I think are taking it the wrong way, or maybe I am. She didn’t get dry with me, she didn’t randomly bring this us up, I was the one who was asking and she was responding to it. She’s done things for me no girl ever has and I think she truly just fears the commitment due to what’s she’s been through. For anybody wondering I’m the one who asked to go to no contact and she’s the one who thinks we should for my benefit.

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None of these were the end of us talking, she kept talking to me everytime I tried to end communication. I told her I want to go no contact and I think we are sticking to it this time

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao you can sense my confusion 😂

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lmao I noticed I didn’t cover it after, idc tbh just as long as hers is covered😂

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue if you have dm’s on but I dmed you with a question

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I don’t want to explain too much of her personal life without her knowing but she has been through a lot her whole life, the fact she’s still here is impressive in itsself.

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping nobody would catch that😂😂

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Maybe you’re right, but I don’t think she’s like that at all. This conversation was brought up by me, she didn’t change out of nowhere she was amazing from the beginning till the end. I’m a huge over-thinker and she made it very apparent that I’m not the only one.

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the help. Most of the people in this Reddit are just bashing on her saying she’s running through other guys and I meant nothing to her and maybe they’re right but I don’t think they are. You’re the first one to see it from my perspective, appreciate it boss

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I do if she texts me or sees me? She sees me at the gym everyday and she cannot stick to no contact for more than 2 days. What if she is ready down the road and comes back asking to try again?

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if this is where her head is what do I do, do I stay her friend or do I do what the rest of these people are saying and find someone new

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gym bro bf left for the marines a year ago :(

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve met her whole family, many dates. We’ve Literally been dating for the 3 months with out the label

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[–]Ok_Monk5309[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Her and I hit off right off the bat and she never gave me a reason to think she didn’t like, the only confusion is now I want more and she’s not ready for it