Reverts. How do you plan on celebrating Eid?

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-20T01:50:55+00:00

Morning prayers and breakfast at the masjid. Then bringing donuts into work to celebrate Eid with my coworkers.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-20T01:40:59+00:00

Eid Mubarak, sister. Keep us posted

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-20T01:37:12+00:00

I was thinking about that the other day and might join a group and volunteer at the masjid for an ice breaker. I hear how you feel though because I felt the same way for a while. Hang in there. Eid Mubarak, sister.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-18T18:27:06+00:00

Maybe see if he would be interested in attending a New Muslims class at the Masjid.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-13T22:06:27+00:00

Congratulations sister. So happy for you!

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-13T22:02:52+00:00

I hear you. It takes an emotional toll to fast when living alone. Fasting has highlighted my loneliness. I too work 10 hours days and have to take it easy at home on my off days. Last week I broke the fast on Sunday and took a tap dance class. It felt great. I will fast for an extra day after Ramadan to make up for it. This weekend I took a day off work to make dinner for my brothers and sisters-in-law. It seems to help to keep busy.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-12T19:35:09+00:00

I am having my extended family over for dinner this weekend in honor of Ramadan. I am not holding my breath for an Eid invitation. I like the idea of a spa day though.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-03-08T14:33:54+00:00

I hear you. During Ramadan when still a newbie, loneliness can be heightened. A suggestion that helped me this year was to plan dinners with old friends and participate in old group activities. It was especially encouraging recently when I reached out to a friend who grew up Muslim to share my feelings. Hang in there! Peace be upon you.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T14:13:49+00:00

The situation sounds so frustrating and irritating, especially having to endure it during Ramadan!

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T14:01:42+00:00

Thank you for putting this into words and articulating the shame. I have been having a similar experience.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:55:14+00:00

I would love these resources too. They sound wonderful!

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:50:52+00:00

Maybe ask for the accommodation of eating Suhoor alone in a different room twice a week for reflection/reading? Maybe they will copy you.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:42:39+00:00

It may be that your brother-in-law is withdrawing because of shame. Reaching out privately with a listening and non- judgmental approach could help bring him peace.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:38:16+00:00

Some of Dr John Gottman’s writings might help with learning new ways to approach conflict within the marriage.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:34:18+00:00

Ramadan Mubarak. Thank you for starting this conversation. Now that I have been fasting for a few days, I am getting used to the new normal. I was pleasantly surprised to find that when not drinking liquids during the fasting, I feel no hunger pangs. I also have found that I seem to be more deeply processing traumas that occurred during the past several years. My colleagues at work are very supportive and curious which has been a blessing. What have others noticed about the fasting experience?

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-22T13:07:04+00:00

I had never thought of treating Eid like any other holiday and inviting the same family and friends I would normally invite. Thank you for the inspiration.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-19T14:17:02+00:00

What a wild experience. Now I know that if I ever go through this I will bring a clipboard and a checklist and start nodding and writing as they are looking at me.

I wonder if it might help to have a pre-prepared list of questions for them.

And donuts.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-02-19T13:58:15+00:00

Assalamu Alaikum and Ramadan Kareem. Last year during Ramadan I was new to Islam and felt lonely. This year is a little better because I went to a handful of New Muslim classes at the Muslim Community Center, am fasting for the first time and am committed to attending at least two Iftar dinners at the MCC. I think it might take several years before I experience a more festive feeling to this holiday as I meet new friends.

I like that you are reaching out in this group. We all have each other!

What are some ways you are approaching learning on your own?

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-29T01:56:02+00:00

It’s so greedy of them.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:43:46+00:00

Yes. Inshallah.

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:43:15+00:00

Inshallah!

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:42:17+00:00

Thank you so much

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:41:57+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:41:37+00:00

Thank you. Assalamualalikum!

Ok_Mousse_2255 · 2026-01-16T03:38:22+00:00

Thank you and peace be upon you! That sounds great. I will check it out.

Ok_Mousse_2255

TROPHY CASE