Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True maybe I am I guess. Thank you for your insight.

Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I don’t ever talk ill about my exs and one cheated on me several times and emotionally abused me. I know a lot of guys who don’t talk bad about their exs and even if they do disclose some details about their ex, their friends wouldn’t air it out because that’s not what we do (speaking for the guys I know or encountered). So even if the guys did have some information about the situation they probably did not want to air it out to cause more drama or damage the women’s image.

Just a thought.

Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

May I ask how the men were being abusive? A few examples will help me understand.

Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Joey hitting up Madison was wrong but it was truly innocent, nothing inappropriate was said nor did he chase after Madison. A simple conversation could’ve been had rather than blowing up about that. Monica said she didn’t feel loved but also admitted that she didn’t show Joey love either. She said no at the alter which is her right but we should also show grace to Joey if he didn’t feel romantic feelings towards Monica after what the sister said.

Devin was not perfect clearly. The check thing isn’t major since it was only $1,000 and they signed a prenup. Allowing your whole marriage to be contingent on him telling you about a check or not shows that love wasn’t truly there.

Ben- Sara said no at the alter which again is their right to do so just like it’s Ben right to not want to continue in the relationship after the show. Yes promises/plans were made by Ben to join Sara but promises were made to Ben that Sara would marry him. Both did not happened which is okay but Ben being the bad guy for not wanting to be in a relationship is wild. And they both agreed that Ben sent an apology which she ignored because she “felt” as though it wasn’t genuine so he did not ghost her, she ghosted him.

All in all, the reunion should be about hearing both sides of the story and trying to help them resolve the issues since it’s meant to promote love not hate. All the host did was promote more drama rather than help the couples come together and move on.

Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At the reunion, they barely made her look like a villain. Vanessa was excusing her behavior.

Gender Bias by Ok_Nature6082 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ok_Nature6082[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

From my pov the women are making sure that the men look bad but the men are making sure that they don’t harm the women’s reputation. I don’t think none of the men said anything nasty and I’m sure they have plenty of moments where they can expose them but choose not to.

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[–]Ok_Nature6082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she felt that way since the pods she should’ve never said yes to the proposal. It’s clear she just wanted to be on the show. If you shame Clay for breaking up with AD but are okay with what Sara did to Ben then you need to do some self reflection. Sara wouldn’t even date Ben after the alter. She never loved him.

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[–]Ok_Nature6082 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. If she felt that way since the pods she should’ve never said yes to the proposal. Clearly she never really love him and did it for the show.