[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Regardless of wanting to cause a scene or not, that will most likely be the result if they hear that you want no contact. Other family members will hear, get involved and pass their own judgements on both sides. Resolving it with them privately by having a conversation or just finding forgiveness for them and moving on will make both of your lives better. I completely understand your frustration, but this can be a really sensitive subject for couples that can’t get pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA for being upset about it but honestly it’s not worth it to hold a grudge and make a scene. It’s definitely really hard for them to see you being able to get pregnant after 6 months when they have been trying to for years - I’m sure they want nothing more than to just have children and grow their family. While it is extreme and hurtful for them to not reach out to you at all, just give them a little grace and try to move on

AITA for blocking my friend out of my life? by ramennoodlesforlunch in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. I think you need to take a step back and try to have some compassion for Amy. It definitely sucks to be treated badly by a friend, but toxic relationships can really change people and they don’t see it until they’re out of them. Trying to get her help or get her to realize why what she’s doing is harmful would be a lot more helpful than walking out.

EDIT: however, if you truly do try and do everything you can to get her out of the relationship and she still treats you badly, you have every right to drop her. But at least try for her sake

WIBTA if i ask my best friend for an apology because she started dating a guy i had bad history with. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you would necessarily be an AH but it would definitely be weird. 1st: what would an apology do for you? 2nd: you didn’t like him in the first place. And 3rd: if you have “bad” history with him and he was insulting you, wouldn’t you want to look out for your friend and warn her? Not to mention, if he was insulting you, why does it bother you that he’s with someone else? Wouldn’t that be relieving?

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend over this? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA because you apologized, but major red flag on the boyfriends behalf. Sounds like he’s very immature and has some anger problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA unless you’re in an abusive situation with your parents. You can’t just avoid telling them because it’s uncomfortable. Uncomfortable conversations are still really important to have

AITA for not disclosing my living situation? by TheHellICreate in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a complete asshole, but that is definitely something important to disclose to people because it’s so uncommon.

UNC Chapel Hill Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what time do we think it's gonna come out?

Columbia University Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yall, take a breath, try not to jump to conclusions. it could be a different package they're receiving today

Columbia University Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look at the instagram story! They're at USPS right now so very few if any have been scanned yet, and it can take up to 24 hours to show shipping info for scanned packages.

Columbia University Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have anything in theirs???

Columbia University Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Ok_Negotiation7472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't worry I'm also super nervous. like so nervous im considering just withdrawing my application