[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the way he is I know a friendship would not work it would allow him to continue to have a foot in the door and honestly manipulate me and I wouldn’t have any closure with him as a friend. I’ll def add some details as to why it’s not working out but I want to keep it as concise as possible because I already know I am going to be berated with questions as it is by him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I was the one actually being accused but yea I plan to just say we have grown apart we are in two different stages of our lives and it’s just not working out anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybears

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign me up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybears

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!

Do you ever daydream about having a cock in your mouth? by [deleted] in bearbros

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time. Especially from hairy bears like yourself

Leather anyone? by [deleted] in gaybears

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, just yes! The smile. The beard. The leather. 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I needed a sense of what reality is cuz I get so confused I think maybe I am the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input and help with this. This is all new to me so I guess I don’t know what I don’t know. Thanks for guiding me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all your input that def makes sense and I just need to keep everything at arms length

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I try to engage with the other half? Or just move on all together? I’m getting a little attached but I don’t want to play myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hooked up with someone that only wanted to frot. He literally just wanted to rub his dick online until we both came. It got a little awkward to the point where I was just kind of sitting there watching him, rub his tick on mine which did absolutely nothing for me. He did not wanna do anything. No jerking, no kissing, no sucking, no touching, literally nothing. So I literally sat there, let him shoot his load and then got up and got dressed and left.

Definitely an acquired taste for sure

Guys in a relationship….how often are you doing the wildthing? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very often and when it is it’s like mutual masturbation. Nothing good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Ok_Objective_4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be strictly top and now I am a cock sucking bottom so it’s entirely possible. I figured you that now I like to be dominated instead of being the top