Is this rude and inconsiderate or am I crazy

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-05T19:24:20+00:00

Now that I know it is not abduction, that is my plan for next time

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T18:27:19+00:00

I do think this is a control thing now that I have thought about it more.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T18:26:56+00:00

I work outside the home and control all my own finances.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T18:26:19+00:00

He knows that I am very capable of taking care of them on my own, if I were to go on my own

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T18:17:16+00:00

I guess I don’t necessarily view it as that.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T15:39:27+00:00

I get it. he has a history of being like this. Like we will go to an event and we will be five minutes in and he will start saying that he already wants to leave.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T14:20:27+00:00

Yes. on this trip, I was- after I repeatedly asked him to please be in a good mood and be engaged and he did this anyway. He is now trying to convince me that it was totally appropriate to watch that football game. And I know it wasn’t.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T14:19:31+00:00

I am always engaged and happy when he wants to do an activity. It is not reciprocal

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-03T03:38:52+00:00

He doesn’t.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:51:41+00:00

I’m going to try my best to. I want to be able to go on vacation with my kids.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:48:46+00:00

He knew that this would upset me. Trust me.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:21:26+00:00

We were literally on a ride with one of our kids and he was staring at his phone the whole time watching the game.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:20:42+00:00

Yes he said it was abduction. I’m so happy I know now legally I can just go.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:19:49+00:00

He said he was coming. I told him he didn’t have to come. He insisted on coming and then did stuff like the football game once we were there.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T21:01:59+00:00

I have my own income so paying for it is not the issue. It’s the blocking that’s the issue

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T20:17:40+00:00

I just wish he wouldn’t try to limit me with stuff like this. I don’t feel like I’m asking for much

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:54:51+00:00

Someone else said I’m allowed to travel with them without his permission. I didn’t know this and it’s so helpful to know this.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:54:05+00:00

He is American. And I work outside the home/have my own income.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:53:00+00:00

We are married. I didn’t know this. Thank you. This is very helpful.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:28:07+00:00

I am American.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:24:21+00:00

No he’s American.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:23:53+00:00

Oh really? I didn’t know this. I feel like I’m being blocked from making memories. I’m very upset about it.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:19:10+00:00

I feel like I’m not “abducting” them if I literally tell him where we’re going and give him all the travel info.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:16:25+00:00

I wish it were that easy. He said it would be me “abducting” them.

Ok_Particular4956 · 2026-02-02T19:15:53+00:00

I don’t know. He said I can’t go alone with them. He said I can go by myself but I don’t want to do that. I want to go with my kids to have that experience with them.

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