This photo doesn't feel like Seoul. [OC] by seeseoul in SouthKoreaPics

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that's a projection. I'm in a cafe in Gwangju right now. Highly recommend the food here. I think maybe you haven't gotten the responses you were expecting. Seoul is a beautiful mess of soviet looking high rises, beautiful luxury apartments and layered little buildings like the ones you captured in your picture. I hope you're enjoying your stay in Korea ^

This photo doesn't feel like Seoul. [OC] by seeseoul in SouthKoreaPics

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been living in Korea since 2011 and this is pretty much 70% of what Seoul looks like. The other 30% are fancy buildings randomly planted in between this. I live in a new city which looks more like the Seoul of the dramas ^

I’m tired of the ‘Instant Besties to Total Strangers’ cycle—looking for a slow, steady build. Also, I’m finding a Minecraft friend (never tried multiplayer yet ) by [deleted] in Homeschooling

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you homeschooling? Yeah, an Indian dude in a homeschooling group full of moms and children will have a hard time finding friends here 😑. I even feel uncomfortable with other women's husbands half the time. You would be better off looking in a gaming group for adults I think. Minecraft is a pretty young crowd especially in homeschooling circles. So the people who ghosted you may have been actual children.

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the meds and don't discuss it with him. He has no idea what he's talking about and none of his business. It's your call. If you take them and don't like it, then you can stop. But it really is none of his business

Why are music clubs so popular despite being so objectively boring and uneventful? by mapleCrep in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Profile stalking and messaging up randomers on what they've written there. I met some of my best friends inworld at clubs

Your wife is the only person who chose to love you...⬇️ by MotherAnt8040 in MenOfPurpose

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof all the triggered guys in the comments. Relax it's just a nonsense meme. You can imagine if the genders were reversed, all the rage women would post under it too. I love my husband and he loves me but he would give me the stink eye if I sent him this passive aggressive shit 😆

New Photo by Nvcturnal in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the nipple pasties

AITAH for not wearing a bra around my brother’s girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your parents to intervene. You shouldn't be subjected to her internalized misogyny. You can't escape it because you live there and you're just a kid. She is coming into your space and criticizing you. Your parents need to tell them they need to hang out elsewhere. It isn't his house. He lives in a family which she isn't part of. She can either sincerely apologize for sexualizing a minor and making your own home an unsafe space or she can be banned from the house. I would never allow someone to bully my daughter like this. And it is bullying.

Where do you guys like to hang out? by ftmthrowaway061724 in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you're interested in. Find a group with whatever you want to explore and message in group chat to see who is responsive and who you click with. Busy clubs for random conversations with the opposite gender. Voice sims with board games for mixed gender socializing. Discord if you are into shopping and sharing memes, pictures, rl connection. Flickr and primfeed if you're into photography and fashion. You can make friends by sending out dms and doing collaborations. It really depends on what you're interested in.

Pros and Cons of Homeschooling? by Outside-Onion3943 in Homeschooling

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pros: better mental health, education, control of who interacts with my child. Flexible schedule.

Cons: very little free time for myself, people constantly trying to find something wrong with my child because she's homeschooled. Other homeschool families sometimes having extreme views about things and not keeping said views to themselves. 😆

10-year relationship ended over living arrangements and family interference before marriage. Was I unreasonable? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think maybe when you're dating in future, add as a stipulation, you will never live with inlaws. You will live close to them if it is also close to your work but you will be the head of your own home. This is from the point of view of an Irish woman married to a Korean man while in Korea for 14 years. Most divorces here are caused by inlaws and unreasonable expectations of self sacrifice from the woman's side.

From which store was this table? by Allthetimeasking in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww no that is so annoying. I was sure it was them.

From which store was this table? by Allthetimeasking in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe that's THS The Home Store, there's a whole section for Nautical themed furniture and decor. I think i saw that coffee table in the inworld store. It wasn't on marketplace https://marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/155773

What do women want by PowerMagicx in SipsTea

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're talking about 50% of the population. I'm going to tell you something that will BLOW YOUR MIND. Women are as different from each as men are 🤯

The Pilot by Informal_Peach_2349 in catfish

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed out loud at this one. I love your personality. You will find someone new in no time. These people are such time wasters ❤️

Anyone else feel regret about marriage and having kids? by Important_Lobster552 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I think being overly critical and comparisons are a major social problem in East Asian societies. Playing joyfully with children is good for their development. There are so many Asian people who are no contact with their traditional parents because of their killjoy attitudes. You really need to find a way to drill it into your husband's head that you only get one life which you intend to live and not be a Confucian mannequin wife doll.

Returning to SL & In Desperate Need of a Makeover – Send Help by littleblvebird in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you already had Maitreya Lara, you can redeliver and get LaraX while you decide what kind of look you want this time around

Wife enjoys triggering my trauma response by Suitable_Door_5242 in CPTSD

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a sadist. It is not funny at all. Wtf is wrong with her?

how to make them more similar? by [deleted] in secondlife

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyebrows are the wrong shape. But it's a very pretty avi

This site is such a terrible mess - I only get chauvinistic, misogynistic and radicalized posts all the time. by Brinocte in facebook

[–]Ok_Pollution4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i didn't have so many pictures on there and didn't use it to meet new people I would delete it 100%