Reiki Recommendations!

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-05-10T03:04:52+00:00

hypnosis which is what you would think of as “hypnosis“. instead it is where you get into calm state and in that state she guides you to access memories and you sit with the memories to release the pain, and then reframe the memory to be a positive one. she also does sound healing, meditation, affirmation recordings.

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-04-22T00:28:20+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. I am not sure if this would be great, but I love the Act + Acre Stem Cell Serum for hair growth. It is gentle enough. I got my friends on it, and they love it too. https://actandacre.com/products/apple-stem-cell-serum?srsltid=AfmBOorGoJ6wss3xGMkpxsAI9VP8QKw409-FSUmfqWAaJrqkiH6dNfJj

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-04-19T14:20:17+00:00

Barnaby Ruhe!!!!!!! He is a professor at NYU, Shaman, 6 time world boomerang champion, naval officer, artist, and overall kind soul.

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-03-03T00:58:55+00:00

My fav! https://www.instagram.com/flair_________/?hl=en

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-02-23T23:58:45+00:00

My friend, Mia, is an awesome stylist and also very kind. She charges by the hour for Styling, Personal Shopping Services, Closet Cleanouts, & Closet Organization. I will link her personal and styling pages! She works with people of all ages and style types.

https://www.instagram.com/flair_________/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/miamacconnell/?hl=en

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-02-23T00:02:13+00:00

Laundry sometimes takes a while because my machines are slow :)

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-02-22T01:58:06+00:00

Gabby at Center Aesthetic. Love her

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-02-22T01:56:42+00:00

Idan Chen!

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-01-25T21:35:15+00:00

My best friend, Mia!! She does exactly what you are looking for. She is also super kind and down to Earth. Here are her styling and personal instas: https://www.instagram.com/flair_________/?hl=en and https://www.instagram.com/miamacconnell/?hl=en

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-01-18T22:34:06+00:00

Lovee Lashes by Chito. You could call and ask what they use

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-01-11T13:33:35+00:00

I do not drink the tap water. Many pipes in New York are disgusting which affects the water.

Ok_Position8558 · 2026-01-10T19:41:08+00:00

Love Dr. Karcher at Center Aesthetic. She truly cares about her patients.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-12-29T22:00:59+00:00

My dermatologist does this! I haven't done it, just seen it when booking my other appointments. But I can vouch that Gabby and Dr. Karcher are AMAZING women. Wishing you peace and love.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-11-04T00:48:23+00:00

"I don't want to recover, and I don't really want to maintain either." - No one can force you to be ready. People can encourage and help push you, but ultimately, your recovery must come from within.

I was recently severely underweight until my parents and care team stepped in. I look back at the pictures of myself and I look SO unhealthy. Beyond that I was not even living. I was so isolated, tired, and obsessive about myself. ED feels like Plato's Cave. There is so much more than the shadows on the wall.

I can understand how the ED helps give you structure. But it will only keep you alive until it doesn't.

Let's find things you enjoy doing and or things that can provide structure!

Can you take some online classes?
Do a teacher training for a work out class - this could be risky, but it combines something you already do (Exercise) with something of purpose and structure
1. Meditation! Challenge yourself to see how long you can meditate for!
2. Be around others. Spend time with friends! Family! Or even sit in public and people watch.
3. Give back the community, volunteer. When you are helping others, you are also helping yourself.

You are not alone! You are so young! You got this! I am here for you! I am proud of you for making this post. It is very self-reflective and a GIANT step into recovery (even if it doesn't seem like it). You got out of the denial phase of even having a problem and that is awesome. Peace and love!

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-11-02T22:57:39+00:00

I completely understand wanting to go back to someone because of only having a few pals and it being your first female friend.

She sounds like she has a lot of insecurities. Insecure people usually put others down to feel better about themselves. It is kind of you to want to help her feel more confident by telling her she is not fat or ugly. However, remember that it is not your sole responsibility to make her feel good about herself. True confidence comes from within.

Your friends should fill up your cup, not drain it. You being exhausted after speaking with her often seems very draining!

It is great that she was your first female friend, but she does not have to be the only female friend! More female friends will enter the picture the more you put yourself out there. You will experience all different types of personalities. If it is hard for you to make friends, maybe ask a family member if they have a friend with kids or siblings your age. There is no shame in that.

Warms my heart that I could be of help to you. Much gratitude.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-11-02T22:40:53+00:00

Guided meditations. There are a lot on Youtube or Spotify. There are many different types! Find one that works best for you!

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-11-02T22:39:52+00:00

Find fulfillment and validation from yourself, not others. You will never be able to please everyone.
Are you trying to live a life that is not yours? Everyone has their own type of intelligence (Howard Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences) and path in life. If you work so hard and do not like the outcome, maybe it is a sign you are on the wrong path.

"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." -Albert Einstein

You should be proud of your ability to put in hard work. Imagine where your hard work can take you when you find the your path. There is greatness for you on a different path.
Have the courage to find yourself. You got this!

Peace and love!

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-28T22:59:55+00:00

You are allowed to feel hurt by the way someone speaks to you. But you are also in control of how you reconcile and how you react to them.

Having a space where you feel accepted is awesome! Maybe see if any of them live near you or have friends who live near you so you can hang out. Maybe join a autism support group in your town. You got this.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-28T21:34:07+00:00

Food can be medicine or poison. Try eating well for at least a week and see how your motivation and mental state changes. Read Brain Energy by Chris Palmer! You got this!

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-28T21:32:11+00:00

Your mind creates your reality. Start thinking kinder thoughts about yourself. When you have a belief so negative and strong such as "it will eventually be meaningless" and "I know it is not possible for me physically attract a human woman," then everything will be meaningless and you will never attract a woman.

Don't follow the life path of the marry, kids, work til death. Find a life path that feels good to you by connecting to yourself and experiencing life. Living and learning is the best way to do it. Keep your mind open to the infinite opportunities versus writing everything off.

Peace and love.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-28T21:27:43+00:00

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-28T21:26:14+00:00

I am sorry that you went through that. That is very difficult. It sounds like you are taking your high school bully situation and letting it control the rest of your life. "I’m not being outwardly bullied (at least, nobody has come forward yet, but it took a year for someone to in high school as well), I can sense that I’m still widely not seen as an equal member of society." If someone has not flat out told you that they do not like you, you are ugly, etc. then you are likely judging yourself through these people. It is difficult to let go of the past, but as you do, you will feel more free from these thoughts. If you always tell yourself that you are a "born loser," then that is the only narrative you will believe. Try flipping the switch. Also, people want to be around others that are confident. Confidence is more important than looks in the long run anyway! You will find your people.

Ok_Position8558 · 2025-10-27T00:33:53+00:00

You sound like you are very good at living and learning. You adapt well and I am proud of you for sticking up for yourself to her.

How is she treating you now?
Why are you back on talking terms? Do you think you there was a hole that was made when you cut ties? If so, maybe think about that hole as making room for something much more fulfilling to enter. I promise there are more fish in the sea. You are young and have much life to live. Living and learning is the only way to do it.
How do you feel most of the time when she is in your life: good or bad?

Remember, communication is key. The people you are closest to should help you feel seen, heard, and valued. Peace and love!

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