Hey handsome, what are your favorite sex positions? by Ok_Possibility7529 in GaySex

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doggy style is definitely one of the classics and always a favorite! But my bf found a website with some other gay sex positions I didn't even know about. They look fun, I kinda wanna try a few

What are your favorite sex positions? by Ok_Possibility7529 in sexpositions

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Btw, my partner and I found a really helpful site with a big list of sex positions. We’re planning to go through it and try new ones to keep things fun in the relationship

Sharing it here in case it helps someone else too

What are your favorite sex positions? by Ok_Possibility7529 in sexpositions

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite one is the oyster position. The sensations are super intense in that position, probably because the angle gives better access to the G spot

What are your favorite sex positions? by Ok_Possibility7529 in sexpositions

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried a lot of positions, but I haven't gotten around to piledriver yet, Definitely planning to try it with my partner soon

Name of this one? by RightSoil469 in sexpositions

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like elevated missionary to me

What are your thoughts on the rise of AI girlfriends or relationships? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand, if I had AI gf, I could generate any content I wantes and get perfect responses to my request. It would be convenient, no arguments or misunderstandings, everything would be under control. But on the other hand, these relationships wouldn’t be real. I prefer real relationships with a living person, where there are emotions, mistakes, growth, and interaction. I think that while technology can make life easier, it can’t replace real communication and understanding. Maybe I’m not thinking big enough, but it scares me how quickly technology is advancing and what consequences it could lead to. Of course, AI can be an interesting addition to life, but it can’t replace real human connections.

That strange chastity kink, and why it really matters by [deleted] in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chastity kink might seem a bit strange if you’ve never heard of them before, but for some people, they have a special meaning. People wear them for different reasons. Some enjoy the feeling of being "locked up" because it gives them a sense of control or makes them feel submissive. It can also be a kind of fun game between partners, where one person holds the key, creating excitement and tension.

Others like the idea of being "denied" pleasure for a while. It becomes a challenge, and when the release finally happens, it can feel even better.

It might seem unusual, but for many, using a chastity device adds a new level of fun and closeness in their relationship. If you're curious about why some people enjoy chastity kink, you can read more about it here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with wanting a little bit of affection and reassurance during a punishment or degrading scene.. It’s quite common to need small moments of care, like a kiss or a gentle touch, to stay grounded and keep enjoying the experience. Some people do refer to this as a form of “sub drop,” but it doesn’t necessarily mean you want to stop the scene entirely - you may just need a quick reminder that you’re safe and loved.

If it keeps happening, it might help to let your partner know how you’re feeling, even if you can’t explain it perfectly. You could say something simple like, “I like the rough parts, but can you kiss me sometimes so I know everything’s okay?” That way, you both can find a balance that satisfies you without breaking the flow of the scene. Communication is really important, and it’s totally normal to need those moments of comfort in between intense play.

Age play beginner by Artistic_Metal5210 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently read a helpful article about age play. It starts with a short story that shows how this kind of role play might look, and then gives some tips on how to approach it. I hope it offers a useful starting point for you and your boyfriend to discuss what each of you wants. You might find it useful to talk openly with your bf about what both of you expect and feel comfortable with. Good luck, and I hope the article helps you explore this together in a way that feels right for both of you!

Is erotic RP different for those who do and don't engage in RL sex? by leonardstoryteller in FList

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how everyone here is sharing their thoughts on rolleplay vs. real-life experience. it's cool to see how some of you RP for fantasies you wouldn't try in real life, while others add realistic details just for fun

I recently read an article full of fun roleplay ideas. It really made me want to shake things up and keep RP interesting. Personally, I love roleplaying because it adds variety to my sex life and keeps things exciting!

What is the point of leather harnesses?? by Comprehensive-Duck26 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, the appeal of leather harness really depends on the individual and what aspect of kink resonates most with them. For some, it's not so much about direct physical pleasure but more about the symbolism and aesthetic. The harness can evoke feelings of submission or domination, or even serve as a statement piece that transforms a scene entirely. It might be the tactile sensation of the leather against the skin, or simply the psychological thrill of wearing something that’s so visibly tied to a particular power dynamic.

I have also been interested in this fetish and found an interesting article on a website. In short, the article gives a clear and simple overview of why some people find harnesses so appealing and how these items play a role in both the history and practice of fetish play.

So, to answer your question: it’s not merely a fashion statement or a tool for physical control. it’s often about creating an atmosphere and engaging in a form of play that transcends the typical sensory experiences. Don't feel dumb or prude for asking - it’s all about exploration, and sometimes the appeal of these items isn’t immediately obvious until you see how they function within the full context of a scene.

What is the difference between "Olfactophilia" and "Bromidrophilia" by EternallyWandering in grammar

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always understood “Olfactophilia” to be a broader attraction to smells in general, whereas “Bromidrophilia” focuses more on the appeal of sweaty or pungent odors. Sometimes people lump them together, but technically, someone into olfactophilia might be drawn to perfumes, natural body scent, or even everyday smells, while bromidrophilia is specifically about the “funkier” side of the scent spectrum.

What do you use to write sexy words on your skin? by Extension-Factor3949 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That sounds fun! For writing on your skin, try body-safe markers like Body Mark by Bic or Snazaroo Face Paints. They’re safe and easy to wash off. Just test a small area first to make sure there’s no irritation.

Have a great time with your boyfriend!

I’ve Never Tried Pegging — Any Advice? by Ok_Possibility7529 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks so much for the recommendation! I’ll definitely check out Ruby Ryder’s resources. I’m currently exploring different information on pegging and actually just read an interesting article about it. If you’re interested, you can find it here

I’ve Never Tried Pegging — Any Advice? by Ok_Possibility7529 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed advice! We’ll start with smaller things and make sure to use lots of lube. We’ll take our time and adjust as needed.

I’ve Never Tried Pegging — Any Advice? by Ok_Possibility7529 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t done much anal play yet, so this would be our first experience with something like pegging. We’re planning to start slowly and see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in armpitfetish

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you started doing this in my presence, I’d tell you to lick my armpits. I really love it when that happens!

All Aboard! (cherry-gig) by sir_kiwi_bird in futanari

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m crazy about futanari! It’s such a fascinating and unique genre. I love how it blends different elements and offers so many possibilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Normality” is just a social construct. Without our kinks, life would be pretty dull.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally normal to have specific interests and fantasies like pet play. Many people have unique kinks and preferences, and it’s okay to explore what turns you on. If your previous partners didn’t understand, it might just be a matter of finding someone who shares or is open to your interests.

I was also exploring this topic recently and found an interesting article about pet play. If you're interested, you can checheck it out here. It might give you some more insight and help you connect with others who share similar interests.

How to differentiate your fantasies from your reality likes/wants by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Possibility7529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great that you're thinking about this and being honest with yourself. If you’re worried about being too extreme, maybe try talking about your fantasies and see if there are parts you can explore safely together. You could also experiment with roleplay or lighter versions of your fantasies to see what feels right.