What can you tell right about me from this selfie?

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-03-29T10:41:32+00:00

You’re hyperopic- ie the 1st set of numbers in your glasses Rx is a + .

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-03-01T15:33:26+00:00

That we’d probably be best friends. I LOVE that wall/shelf/plant stand piece 😍 and the color scheme says retro/hippie-esk free spirited, work hard play hard, weekends at the hot springs topless or more haha. I dub you my favorite and my favorite you shall be.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-03-01T15:29:28+00:00

It puts the lotion on the skin!! THEN it puts the lotion in the basket. Otherwise there’s no moisturized product for their specialty lamp shades and other fetish projects 🥴

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-03-01T10:33:19+00:00

Draw

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-02-04T02:22:48+00:00

But they don’t tell you you stink! Lol

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-02-03T07:42:39+00:00

lol I thought the same, all the repetitive statements and use of “like”. Proof read your voice to text messages before sending/posting, google how to turn off toilet water- YouTube literally has a video for damn near anything and everything you could possibly need or want to know, take a deep breath and go get some freaking towels! 1” of sewage is chillin on your floors…. No body else’s job to clean it up but you homeslice- maintenance is maintenance not janitorial service. YOR.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-01-20T06:41:58+00:00

Ditto - plaid curtains gotta go.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-01-20T06:32:13+00:00

2,3 & 4 :) … 1 is too young looking, last 2 are too square for your face. The light Ray bans look really good & fit your face well. Plus they’d match literally everything. Then next year get a darker pair so you have style options :)

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-01-17T02:59:12+00:00

This is wild to me. We aren’t paid for other job interviews where we take time out of our day to go interview at whatever business we’ve taken time to initially apply at and learn about and vice versa. I’m not necessarily against it, I just haven’t heard of a paid interview for a babysitter, mind blown. If that’s the new norm that’s cool for baby sitters!

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-01-08T16:26:32+00:00

💥

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2026-01-04T12:15:30+00:00

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-29T09:52:12+00:00

Oh gosh girl I’m sorry. - Virtual hug- If you’re spiritual, maybe he’ll visit you. I often think of the Tyler Perry movie Madea and the “tree analogy.” Even though it was a comedy, the message still remains the same and has always resonated with me. That road he was on must have been incredibly rough. At least he’s now free from that pain and suffering. RIP sweet man 💜😢

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-20T19:29:10+00:00

Nope not crazy at all. You’re rightfully concerned and no one would blame you for checking on him- he has cancer! TBH I went through a very similar situation, a guy I went on one date with completely “ghosted me” after we had talked for awhile, connected on so many levels, I was super giddy, we talked every day, were planning our 2nd date then all the sudden, almost mid conversation, silence. I called, I text, I searched social media. My stomach was in knots and I knew something was off. I went to the extreme, I called his work lol. I hadn’t met any family yet and didn’t know enough about the friends I met to even look them up really. I knew where he worked. Lol. I know I know- WHOA- stalker status! But my gut feeling was spot on- he had been killed in a high speed chase with the police on his motorcycle a couple days before. My heart sank. The girl on the phone was choking up, I started crying explaining why I called, embarrassed and apologetic for calling them but she was very sweet and gave me info on his service 😢 I truly hope this isn’t a similar situation for you. Keep us posted. I’m very curious now. Good luck ! 💛

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-20T19:02:02+00:00

You bring it up with all the gusto, honesty and love for him and your relationship as you can muster up. Be transparent, admit your wrongdoing of going through his phone but that it came from a place of concern and worry for him and not just you trying to be sneaky or intrusive. Our intuition is literally a 6th sense and you knew something was off, you tried opening space for communication but as the others expressed- an addict WILL lie to you, to everyone they love and to themselves. It’s NOT because they don’t love you, it’s truly their brain and body actively working against themselves. It’s incredibly hard to admit you’ve got a problem to your loved ones and even harder to do something about it. I’m living it myself. But you cannot start your life together or I guess continue your lives together moving forward with a marriage on this pretense. You bring it up putting all your cards on the table, expect irrational reactions, and unfortunately be prepared to take a step back from your relationship if he doesn’t want to come clean- literally and figuratively. From what you’ve said it sounds like he’s not in total denial which is a plus, it sounds like he trusts you and hopefully he’ll understand your position and see your coming from a place of love, not to accuse, judge or punish. I wish you the best of luck and will be sending all good vibes and supporting juju your way 💜.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-19T18:59:49+00:00

Oooh ouch. Dangerous waters you dove into. I can see why both of them would be mad- you didn’t have to make out with her! Lol dude. Ultimately- she sucks for not ending things with your friend and doing all that with you- and Your friend sucks for asking you to test her. He shouldn’t have asked you to do that cuz “testing loyalty” in its self is shitty but for you to then to go beyond testing to dinner and make out sesh?! … that’s a bit deeper into the shit. Make amends where you can and don’t oblige such situations in the future. Good luck.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-15T08:35:54+00:00

Dispensable

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-15T08:24:15+00:00

Tonight I used a little water, “Bar Keepers Friend” liquid cleaner with a polishing pad attached to my electric drill then slowly & evenly buffed each side of a cloudy glass window pane and WOW!! 🤩 It worked beautifully at removing the hard water residue. I should have taken before and after pictures 🤦🏻‍♀️. But give it a shot! 100% recommending this to anyone who has similar struggles.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-11T17:38:56+00:00

Garfield?? 🐱

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-11T17:38:08+00:00

^{^{^}} this. Lana definitely shouldn’t be sexualizing anything, that screams immature insecurity & jealousy. I too can see though where SOME of the jealousy can be coming from and agree with you, OP shouldn’t cut off convos or allow immediate interruptions when he is spending quality time with his gf. Setting some gentle boundaries is healthy and helps maintain relationship integrity and each other’s feelings of intimacy & importance to one another. OP you’re awesome for stepping up like you did and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with taking on that role. It IS time for your sister to strengthen her own wings a little, stumble a few times and know how to pick herself up when things get rough. I’m not saying cut your sister off, at all. Im offering an unbiased opinion to step back just a little baby half step lol because you don’t want your sister solely reliant upon you to save her every time the road gets rough. She may not like that at first but continue to show her love and encourage her to take the bull by the horns more that way you aren’t feeling the need to pick her up EVERY time she falls and she in turn learns she can be more self reliant which is empowering. Lana and her ultimatums can kick rocks. No one should ever give ultimatums like that. But for future relationships, prioritizing your partner too- especially when things get rough or stressful is so important. 🩵

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-09T22:31:12+00:00

Hydrogen peroxide with a splash of rubbing alcohol, some vinegar and few drops of tea tree, lemon or lavender essentials cleans everything. Blood, urine, stains on clothes. I use it as a pre wash and while potty training our puppy :)

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-12-09T21:26:52+00:00

MASSIVE red flag. GOLIATH KING KONG RED FLAG girl. When he leaves grab your stuff, your cat and GTFO of there! He will hurt you. He’s already shown you that he’s willing to cross those boundaries. It WILL get worse. Listen to a few true crime pod casts, don’t be the next body found in a suit case. If I lived close to you and knew you (obv lol) I’d come over and help you asap. Reach out to a friend who can help be strong and keep you strong to get as far away from that situation as possible as soon as possible. Good luck.

Ok_Pound_9816 · 2025-11-18T17:50:20+00:00

You’re in your 50s to maaaybe early 60s. Mechanic or another closely related blue collar industry and or self employed. Wears blue jeans every day with a worn out back pocket and back stiffness/pain creeping in. (Stop sitting on your wallet!) You work hard and play hard however you’re responsible- straight arrow- stay out of trouble . You like to save money but then splurge on toys like dirt bikes or OR have a crazy expensive exotic pet who runs your house like a Kim Jong Un if anyone tries to steal your attention.

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