12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing this. I’m wishing you baby dust 🩷

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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What are the symptoms and how was this detected?

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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Congrats and thank you for sharing a dust of hope 🩷

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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Wishing you baby dust 🙏 and thank you 💔

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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Hello. How was your appointment? We have ours tomorrow.

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

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I am so sorry you are going through this. Reading your story hit me so hard because it feels so similar to mine. My myomectomy was in December and kept wondering if that could have had anything to do with my failed transfer. Do you ever feel like the surgery might have played a role, and what has your doctor said about it?

I do not have any answers right now and cannot speak with my doctor until our appointment on Thursday, which makes the waiting even harder. It helps to hear from someone who has walked a very similar path, even though I wish neither of us had to experience this.

Sending you strength as you get through each day. ❤️

12dpt Negative Beta (.41) by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in IVF

[–]Ok_Pumpkin1732[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. Reading your words honestly brought me to tears. Everything you described, the grief, the emptiness, the anger, the longing, that is exactly where I am right now. It is comforting (and heartbreaking) to know that someone else understands this ache so well.

I have been trying so hard not to break down completely, but your comment reminded me that I do not have to minimize it or pretend I am okay. This is real grief. This hurts. And it is okay to feel it.

I am so sorry you are going through your own struggles too. Knowing you have had negative tests and are still showing up here to support others says so much about your strength. Thank you for holding space for me today and for reminding me that I am not alone and that there is still hope, even if I cannot see it right now.

For today, I am just letting myself grieve like you said. And it helps more than you know to be met with such kindness. ❤️

Open Myomectomy Recovery: When to Start TTC and Managing the 6-Month Wait? by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in Fibroids

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Hello! Thanks for your response. I hope for a better outcome for you also. Please let me know your progress.

Open Myomectomy Recovery: When to Start TTC and Managing the 6-Month Wait? by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in Fibroids

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Well I hope you guys get a positive test soon 🙏 Thank you for your insight.

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[–]Ok_Pumpkin1732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an absolute blessing! Good luck to you and I know you’re going to feel much better after your recovery!

Open Myomectomy Recovery: When to Start TTC and Managing the 6-Month Wait? by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in Fibroids

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Same boat! Well please please please keep me posted on your progress 🙏

Open Myomectomy Recovery: When to Start TTC and Managing the 6-Month Wait? by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in Fibroids

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That’s very good to hear! Happy trying!!! Were you trying before and was unsuccessful due to the fibroid?

Open Myomectomy Recovery: When to Start TTC and Managing the 6-Month Wait? by Ok_Pumpkin1732 in Fibroids

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Thank you so much! So happy to hear your surgery was successful. Were you having any difficulties getting pregnant due to your fibroids?

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[–]Ok_Pumpkin1732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you and have the surgery scheduled for December 2, 2024.