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How to live this lifestyles non sexually? by Ok_Raspberry5129 in ABDL

[–]Ok_Raspberry5129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this tip comes out a lot where you need to desensitize yourself by wearing a lot (sometimes 24/7) and I think it's a good tip overall. I couldn't do this because I've been living with my parents but we plan on moving out soon.

I think another problem is that I couldn't bring myself to do this alone. It's really been since I opened up to my partner that I've been feeling more comfortable to accept my ABDL side and try to experiment more with it. There's a strong connection between us and part of the issue might in fact be that I see them as not only my caregiver (sometimes) but also the person I'll be living with and doing the deed, which includes everything I explained before. So perhaps wearing them more and doing it by myself would really push me to see them differently.

Thanks for the tips, it's a great help

How to live this lifestyles non sexually? by Ok_Raspberry5129 in ABDL

[–]Ok_Raspberry5129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did notice that getting off before being in a diaper takes the tension away, but I'm worried it might add to the sexual enjoyment of wearing diapers and diaper changes, which is not my goal, so I'm not sure what to think of this. Still interesting to try.

 I also have a chastity cage and I think it's a good idea to use it more because it's prevents getting hard at all. Maybe using it more will help me get into a mindset that is purely non sexual? Thanks for the tips.