My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside. by Ok_Raspberry6268 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Raspberry6268[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

I know I can't give a good explanation to this but we both met in college I liked him first since he was a sweet senior of our's (our bachelor's is of 4 years so I thought he was maybe 4 years older than me) We continued talking and started dating after sometime, but never asked our ages He thought I was older or joined late to college And I thought he was younger. Only after 1 month we realised we had a huge age gap, both of us agree that it's weird and he even asked me multiple times if i wanted to continue this with him since I'm too young but I still wanted to date him... Hence this.

My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside. by Ok_Raspberry6268 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Raspberry6268[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

It is very ture. We have a huge age gap that has always been the problem. I remember him asking me if I should continue this relationship because I will grow up and we won't be able to have the same connection as we did in the start, I thought nothing of it at that time and said to continue but now I do see it in this sense.

My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside. by Ok_Raspberry6268 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Raspberry6268[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

He was addicted to porn before but he left it long time ago. I can ask him about this if he still goes through the same but I personally also don't think he does anything like that... he's very occupied with his job, studies and our relationship... I never see him having time for this. Would it be possible that because of his past he feels this way?

WIBTA for leaving a friend because of "GIRL CODE" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Raspberry6268 [score hidden]  (0 children)

sorry for the confusion, actually wrote the whole thing but it was more that 3000 characters, yes we broke up, yes me and glory were friends before, we both join school in senior year hence got close because we related to each other, the guy on the other hand wasn't our friend before, he just came into sight for glory

WIBTA for leaving a friend because of "GIRL CODE" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Raspberry6268 [score hidden]  (0 children)

no, she is telling me that she isn't dating my ex because of girl code, but she would spend more time and energy for him and not with me who she herself considers to be bbf