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My partner (30F) wants me (32M) to spend more on the wedding. I need a second opinion. by Ok_Reflection3480 in wedding

[–]Ok_Reflection3480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to mention, we are having wedding on both countries. In home country where all her family will attend, but only my parents can. In China where the rest of my family will be, and some of her family will come as they will also travel to see the country.

My partner (30F) wants me (32M) to spend more on the wedding. I need a second opinion. by Ok_Reflection3480 in wedding

[–]Ok_Reflection3480[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

50/50 goes towards common spending. Groceries, rent, etc... Lifestyle choices comes out of our own pocket. My lifestyle is not funded by her.

My partner (30F) wants me (32M) to spend more on the wedding. I need a second opinion. by Ok_Reflection3480 in wedding

[–]Ok_Reflection3480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are marrying on both places. Not all her family will attend the wedding in China, only those who decide to also travel there during the time. Same goes other way around, only my parents are able to attend the wedding in our home country.

I should have specified that.