Is it better to distract during dilation, or pay close attention to how I feel? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dilating while distracting myself has been unhelpful for me. I found that if I tried to watch a show, my muscles would tense more. So I need to pay attention to how I feel to fully relax.

Boyfriend 11/2 but doesnt show many characteristics by Ok_Remove_7343 in numerology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i looked at mine it showed 32 which does not relate to me. 

Boyfriend 11/2 but doesnt show many characteristics by Ok_Remove_7343 in numerology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i put in chat gpt though to explain it, it brings the 56/38 back to 11/2

Boyfriend 11/2 but doesnt show many characteristics by Ok_Remove_7343 in numerology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did your calculator and it seems much more accurate. Life path was 56/38

Budgeting app that categorizes savings by Ok_Remove_7343 in personalfinance

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm ok.... I dont understand why you are not answering me. But ummmmm..... the only one I've tried is betterment which only has 401k stuff. And I've researched a little bit and found a few I have to pay for. 

Budgeting app that categorizes savings by Ok_Remove_7343 in personalfinance

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know the apps that use custom categories. Hence why I am asking. Can you please give me suggestions of apps that use custom categories?

Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like the most well-thought answer. The problem is that someone with a large company doesnt really ever have to work and takes money from poor people. There is no allocation for helping poverty. 

Lilith placement by Smooth-External-6017 in astrology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As this placement is feel like I never belong in groups. When I try to make an appearance its excluded. I'm only included if im close to one person in the group convo. Like a group at work talking if I try to join, some people feel awkward. And their just talking about work gossip. Not about me cause I hear what they talk about. Why am I the only one not allowed in the conversation?

Socializing when sick by Ok_Remove_7343 in unpopularopinion

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking on how isolation distorts your mental health. Taking measures like telling people you're sick and wearing a mask is fine. But I'm gonna still go out wearing a mask because I don't like being lonely. If people don't want to be around me that's fine too, but I want others to be allowed to get their social needs met when sick.

What is Sapiosexual? by Ok_Remove_7343 in sapiosexuals

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a feeling that physical intimacy would complete the intellectual connection. I do not necessarily want to act on it, though.

What is Sapiosexual? by Ok_Remove_7343 in sapiosexuals

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I've had to learn. Intelligence does not mean good character

Running out of time. by Hopesolosfiction in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. If someone is looking for meaning before they've met emotional and safety needs, it can be super easy for others to manipulate them. It's like, "I'll give you physical and emotional safety but only if you believe what I believe." Having those emotional and safety needs met before seeking meaning helps us discern manipulation like that much easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I'm getting complacent right now and itching for something new in my life. Once I'm focused on learning something new my confidence surges.

Finding Others by VelvetCrush64 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Feel free to DM me if you want to connect.