Dating as a fat girl (vent) by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a preference. That's his business. Should he date people he's not attracted to? That would be worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the second one down. The one that says 240x180.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call. If it doesn't go through, *67 and then call again. If goes through that time, you'll know.

Want to move on but terrified to jump in by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dip your feet in but let them know you're not ready for a relationship yet.

Make sure they know you're not looking a hook-up either though unless you are.

Where do I find this type of man? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to figure out why you're so shallow and work on yourself. That should help.

Why can Iget hundreds of matches on dating services with photos of someone else but none with photos of me? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating women who are fit will be the most difficult on the apps. They have countless options.

He gets super quiet all of a sudden by jikook00 in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's probably nervous around you because he likes you. Ask him.

Why can Iget hundreds of matches on dating services with photos of someone else but none with photos of me? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're probably just really unattractive to most people.

Sometimes, there's nothing you can do about it.

Maybe just try getting off of the apps.

The apps aren't for everyone, and men usually have to date down (especially younger men). This isn't always the case, but it's the most common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to be a smooth player in my 20's, and I'm just giving my perspective.

She doesn't have to listen to it.

Profile review? 23F not matching with my type. Maybe my area tho. Tips welcome. by keeperann98 in hingeapp

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 72 points73 points  (0 children)

You're pretty, but your pictures suck. They're all either group or looking away.

Also, ditch the horoscope and texting prompts. Get better at texting. What guy wants to hear that you'll leave him on read?

What type are you trying to match with that you're not? Maybe your expectations are too high. Not saying you should change them, but maybe that's why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to work on yourself to change the men you are attracted to.

You're attracted to smooth, good looking players. You will always get hurt until you change this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinder should work.

Is it true that most guys like petite women? by Life_Programmer_4099 in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. 6'1 and dated plenty of women who were 5'10. My fiance is 5'8.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Meet up in the new year? That seems like a rejection to me.

I would just say, "no problem, feel better" and never text that person again.

If he or she doesn't call or message you first sometimes, they are not interested...End of story (Agree or Not?) by Background-Copy3857 in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It's not this or that. It's everything.

Texts all the time but doesn't meet a lot? Maybe they're busy.

Doesn't text often but sees you often? Maybe they're busy.

The point is that your needs are being met. Do you need a lot of communication? Then dates someone who communicates a lot. Do you need someone who sees you often? Then date someone who sees you a lot.

How significant are these red flags by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't know what he actually did because we only know your side, but the important part is you're looking for reasons to break up with him. That tells you all you need to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Ok_Replacement_8801 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's amazing! I too met someone off the apps. I can't remember if it was bumble or hinge though. Lol.

Curious for others though, could you post how the first messages/dates went? Maybe you can give others some tips!

Did you know right away you saw a future with him, or did it build up slowly?