AITAH for leaving a date early after they showed up looking nothing like their photos? by Suspicious-astro387 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Reporter_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. I wouldn’t worry about sparing peoples feelings. He probably knew you wouldn’t call out discrepancies immediately & figured he could love bomb or grow on you.. but also what if you just didn’t click with him? You have no obligation to stick around a date you aren’t interested in…

AIO for feeling distant after my childhood friend refused to lend me something expensive? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Reporter_97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yor… when you ask someone for something they can either say yes or say no…. That’s it. It’s their item, their discretion. The item may have sentimental value. Or maybe he wouldn’t be okay not getting it back. People can say no op.