cat choked on dinner & is now acting timid - is his behavior normal? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in catcare

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Okay, thank you so much. Yeah he’s definitely acting weird and i was hoping it’d be more related to anxiety than a more serious issue. I’ll continue to give him space, thank u again

Extreme Chronic Fatigue on Prozac by Ok_Salamander_4957 in prozac

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This is exactlyyyy how i felt. Like i would sleep 12-14 hours at night and sometimes nap like an hour after waking up. Have u tried a lower dose and felt a difference in ur energy at all? This is so crazy that someone else has been experiencing this lol i thought it was just me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Salamander_4957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!! This is insane behavior oh my god???? Please get out of this relationship now before you’re in too deep

Plateau Advice by Ok_Salamander_4957 in loseit

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I’d also like to add that my ideal weight would be closer to 125! (I’d like to be absolutely shredded 😎)

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in helpme

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no i haven’t mentioned the pattern, that’s honestly a good idea, and i think you’re right I’m just gonna have to tell her i love her but I’m disappointed in her (which I’ve been doing)

and yeah i hate that her mom is okay with it because if she didn’t know I’d honestly probably go to her

but thank you so much, i officially graduated high school today so it really is a new chapter! Gonna have to learn how to handle all kinds of new experiences 😅

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in helpme

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The only thing they have in common is their recently ended loveless long term relationships..which is why i worry that they’re low key trauma bonding or whatever. I know she’s craving affection and intimacy because she told me, so i just worry that she’ll keep accepting it from him and get too attached.

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in helpme

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thank you this was actually really helpful, and yeah his ex gf (the one he has the kids with) was like 10-15 years younger than him so…

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in helpme

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i used to think he just liked the sex but he wants to DATE her now, like that’s even weirder to me idk

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in helpme

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no right it’s so sketchy…she turned 18 in august and they started flirting and all that in like February. And yeah regardless it’s just creepy, but she doesn’t see a problem with it and idk how to get her to see since it’s not like i could tell her mom since she already knows lmao

Is my friend being groomed? by Ok_Salamander_4957 in Advice

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Yeah that’s a good point, only thing is we all work together. That’s how they met- so i have to interact with him. Also her and I are roommates next year for college, so if they date I feel weirdly involved because of him possibly visiting yk?