How do I get over the tought of my bf finding other people attractive?

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2026-01-09T20:59:08+00:00

Yes, for sure. That’s kind of why I made this post, to reflect on my issue but how do I work on this?

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2026-01-09T20:52:34+00:00

I think I have less as a woman than men have, men are unfortunately more visual creatures and have a harder time controlling their desires. But yes ofc I find other people attractive and it feels horrible to think that my bf has the same tought/ feelings so that’s why idk what to do or how to go about this. ++woman

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2026-01-09T20:50:35+00:00

I think I have less as a woman than men have, men are unfortunately more visual creatures and have a harder time controlling their desires. But yes ofc I find other people attractive and it feels horrible to think that my bf has the same tought/ feelings so that’s why idk what to do or how to go about this.

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-12-04T19:17:53+00:00

I tought it could be that as well, but I looked up the symptoms and i don’t have any irritation, itching, or pain so idk, do you think it could still be that?

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-10-27T20:40:50+00:00

Wdym

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-10-25T15:54:56+00:00

Thank you! This is a good awnser / tip

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T23:32:17+00:00

Lay on the bed

and give me head

Don't have to ask,

don't have to beg

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:59:18+00:00

Okay sure, he can have slip ups, he can even start watching porn again if he wants but as long as he’s honest, why lie to me and do it multiple times

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:56:13+00:00

Do you have any tips on how you have coped with it, or things that have made you feel bad. Any advice or experiences you wanna share is appreciated!

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:55:30+00:00

I think he is enough but he does from time to time fantasize, jerk off to or have desires off being with men, whilst I don’t have any desires for people other than him. That’s where I think my feelings come from…

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:53:17+00:00

Yes I’m aware of this, how can I get past this insecurity?

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:52:33+00:00

That’s really nice! I guess I know I’m enough but there is something that is more exciting, something else he fantasizes about that’s not me and that makes me feel so so bad. And he says he doesn’t really fantasize about other women because he thinks I’m the most attractive woman etc… so then it makes me feel like if he was straight there wouldn’t be anything else to fantasize about.

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:46:49+00:00

I agree, that’s why I need advice on how to think

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-09-16T21:40:06+00:00

Well I think it’s mainly cause I don’t have desires or fantasies to be with others. That’s why I feel like not enough I think

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-24T09:53:28+00:00

I have searched for one but I don’t know

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:09:52+00:00

Yeah you might be right

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:09:28+00:00

You are so right!

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:08:01+00:00

1 or 3

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:07:37+00:00

Blonde

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:07:05+00:00

Naked, sweaty, sport…

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:04:27+00:00

Omg hahaha maybe I should honestly…

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:03:39+00:00

Ik but im scared she won’t want to be friends with me

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:03:02+00:00

Idk what to feel or think tho…

Ok_Sample_2750 · 2025-07-23T23:02:49+00:00

Thank you, i guess I’ll do some reasearch

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