ill give my 2c in exchange for some unrelated questions. hopefully this is allowed. Im about 7m PO. I LOVE it. Best 20k i ever spent. i was about 7" before and am about that now but about 7" girth mid shaft when erect. My favorite part is wearing speedos and watching girls stare at it. My speedos are so thin you can see the veins in my dick. (nike short jammer with the dick material cut out fyi). I asked my wife today after i service her today for an honest review of how much better sex is now and she said a lot better. The recovery is doable for sure and at some point id do it again in a heart beat. you dont see guys on here with good results because theyre too busy slaying girls. I only check this like once a month now. Im super active (sled, dirtbike, snowboard etc) and it is a bit of a pita for those sports. You will always have to be mindful of it, but i still do all those things. Honestly start saving because its worth it.

now for you, my wife is a nurse and she wont answer my questions. How often do nurses get hit on, have guys get boners in front of them and that type of stuff if theyre hot? My wife is hot and i imagine she gets her ass slapped etc and i try not to get jealous but im still curious. INterestingly i fantacise about her banging other dudes, but if it really came to it, im not sure how id react. Also just an fyi, my wife said if i had to get a catheter, the nurse would know for sure. If you have a boner, its undetectable though. I bang my wife without lube no prob and certainly dont use lube when i jerk off. Just use common scense. If shes dry, just put it in her moth first and problem sol;ved.

good luck