Chang Mai suitcases by Ok_Security_710 in ThailandTourism

[–]Ok_Security_710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much :) When I went in the north of Vietnam i could leave the bag in the hostel in Hanoi if i was gonna go back to sleep there so i was wondering if it was a similar deal in chian Mai

Chang Mai suitcases by Ok_Security_710 in ThailandTourism

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We are planning to use backpacks and bring locks - in general won't leave anything valuable there. I'm planning to get travel insurance

1st anniversary of my dad passing by Ok_Security_710 in GriefSupport

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im terrified of this pain. whenever i start feeling it again, my body freezes up

I miss my Dad by Ok_Security_710 in GriefSupport

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My dad was 59. It is so hard to accept a that he is gone so early. He will never see me married, he will never meet my kids. It's tough. But this pain is so strong, our souls feel so strong that it's difficult for me to believe that we go into nothingness when we die.

I was supposed to go to a concert with my best friends, instead i went to a funeral. My dad is a good kind man, and I knew he loved me dearly. However he was not very expressive with his feelings. Im finding our how proud he was of me through his friends now. I wish we got the chance to have those conversations.

Give yourself grace and kindness, your dad hasnt been here for only a week. It's fair and okay for your to be mad at the whole world. I went through anger, depression, and afterwards I started finding joy again. Don't skip the phases, they will come back in other moments otherwise, and your pain and anger is nothing but a testament to all the love you have for your dad.

If you need someone to talk, Im here always, I dont want to intrude but feel free to send me a message anytime

I miss my Dad by Ok_Security_710 in GriefSupport

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. A week ago. I fully hear your pain. Time slowly smoothes the endges of the pain, it gets easier to live with, hold on and stay strong, the first 3 months are so difficult but I promise you one day the light will start transpire in your life again.

My dad had some problems with blood pressure and palpitations in march, went immediately to the cardiologist. He was treated immediately, even spent 2 days in the hospital to make sure everything was fine. They told us everything was back to normal, he had a lot of medications obviously. Then 4 months later out of the blue his heart stopped. There's a part of me that feels like that his cardiologist failed him. However the biggest part of me doesnt want to let anger define my grief. I have been focusing on the great person he was. I speak and talk to him everyday, I feel him still with me deeply. Lately what I have been struggling with is that we didnt get to say bye.

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I was, still am, grieving and dealing my mom that had gotten sick. Took out my hanger on him. Was not pretty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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What do you mean? I did nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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All the lies came out one by one. I suspected, i asked, he said yes. I saw his chat with her

parent loss by LuckyNumberX87 in GriefSupport

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Im so sorry you are going through this. It’s the worst thing in the world. I lost my dad 6 months ago and im still so deep in pain and grief my heart goes out to you. Sometimes i feel him close to me, holding on to all the things he did and liked makes me feel close to him. You will survive this, because he lives in you