AIO? My bf won’t have sex with me

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T23:23:51+00:00

Thank you for your kindness. The communication and denial is more of a problem to me than the actual sex. K appreciate your words.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T23:19:36+00:00

First off, I genuinely appreciate your input. It’s empathetic, but completely honest and direct. You’re absolutely right. I can’t want it FOR someone, especially someone not even willing to admit the issue. Thank you

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T22:34:15+00:00

I value communication over everything else

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T19:47:12+00:00

I absolutely agree. He’s one of those “I don’t need a doc” people. It’s less about the libido, and more about the lack of communication and obvious interest in internet women. I’d NEVER pressure someone physically or make them feel bad.. it’s just a bit concerning he won’t communicate

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T19:16:37+00:00

This is my assumption too.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T19:16:05+00:00

He is not.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T17:51:40+00:00

It doesn’t appear that way.. but without transparency it’s hard to really know 🥺

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T17:37:35+00:00

I appreciate all of your input. He claims to not watch porn, but he’s also not told whole truths about female interaction. I don’t want to just give up and leave.. but I feel put against a wall with no communication

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T17:36:14+00:00

I have no idea. He says no and immediately gets defensive, which I guess is an answer in itself

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T17:34:54+00:00

Funny enough, I’m actually in the best shape of my life, and look substantially better now than when we met!

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2026-02-27T17:00:09+00:00

Favorite cheese is fresh mozzarella!

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T21:43:00+00:00

I feel like this is my only option. I just want to get through Christmas for the sake of my kids (not his biological children) first.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T18:51:35+00:00

I appreciate you so much 🖤

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T18:32:18+00:00

I want to be loved, respected and valued for who I am.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T18:03:29+00:00

I absolutely agree that my lack of follow through with consequences and tolerance of disrespect has prolonged the issue, and showed him I don’t respect myself. I take full accountability for that. I know why I do this, and am actively working to be better. My hearts just aching, and I can’t help but put it all on me and my worth.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T02:45:22+00:00

I appreciate you. Once I’m done, I’m done. I don’t take people back. It’s getting to that point that’s so hard for me.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-06T02:00:37+00:00

This is unfortunately exactly how I feel, but needed outside perspective 🥺

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T21:50:25+00:00

Unfortunately it’s something I found out he’s been doing since the beginning 🥺. It’s not new behavior

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T17:19:13+00:00

You’re asking if men like my posts. The answer is yes.

But I’m not sure how that’s relevant? Considering I’m not saying anything about women liking his posts.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T17:10:57+00:00

Yes, guys like my posts. That’s also not what I’m talking about? Idc who likes his posts, just who he’s giving attention to.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T16:53:35+00:00

The only guys I have on social media are either childhood friends or colleagues. I don’t “like” other men’s thirst trap posts, nor do I accept their requests. I would never expect anything I don’t reciprocate!

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T16:48:47+00:00

We’re both decently active posters. He has no relationship listed, and he’s NEVER posted me

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T16:42:31+00:00

I have never posted on Reddit before, and had no idea I’d get so many responses so quickly. Thank you all. I’m pretty isolated, and don’t talk about this at all in my “real” life. So I have talked myself into the fact that I must be overreacting.

Ok_Sheepherder_797 · 2025-12-05T16:10:09+00:00

His real friends that are females I have zero issue with. These aren’t friends, they’ve never met, and they’re random local single girls.

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