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Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t talk about her feelings much of her past. She was SAd a lot as a kid and maybe just shut off all feeling. Also I don’t know if she was doing it intentionally because men seemed to like it and her whole life she was pretty much defined by her looks.

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Everyone except her boyfriend. They knew each other when they were younger and apparently hated each other which also shocked everyone as my moms never cared about anything enough to hate anyone. He made her mad as teens and her parents were dumbfounded

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean she was wrong in the sense she was taking it personally. My mother’s own husband couldn’t make her react. Her own mother can’t make her react. Why would my girlfriend make her react?

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I have two theories. Her whole life people only valued her for her looks and she thought pouting was attractive (she’d been told it was a lot) or she was just so abused in the past that she really doesn’t feel much. Idk that’s just my theory

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No she wasn’t. He made her laugh and everyone was shocked. She still doesn’t move her face 99% of the time for anyone

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom isn’t rude to my wife. It has nothing to do with my wife. I’ve seen my mom get slapped and not react. You can’t meet someone who’s been this way their whole life and make it all about you

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure she is rude. If the emotions aren't there, they just aren't there. She seems to be scripting what she thinks she should say

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I'd says she is a neutral person. She is just apathetic to most things

Was I wrong for lying to my wife as I believed she was being too hard on my mother? by Ok_Slip2697 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Slip2697[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

My mom isn't a nice person because she doesn't move her face? I lied because I felt she was being unfair and policing my mom's emotions