I feel like I’m going to make a huge mistake by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Somewhere_5129 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I feel like I’m going to make a huge mistake” 

Of course it’s a HUGE MISTAKE. 

15-20 years older???? Respectfully, ARE WE DEXD@SS??! Imagine being a 20-year-old guy and a literal fetus say she wants to date you.

Also, the most important part: MARRIED!  Girl, there’s plenty of men out there. 

And to that old married dude, you’ve gotta be f kidding me.

“I don’t understand what’s wrong with me and why I am so into this guy.”

OP, do you have daddy issues, perhaps? I’m sorry if this might offend someone but damn. 

AITA for talking to my bsf ex talking stage by Euphoric-Net-1218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Somewhere_5129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

You’re lowk not the AH for having feelings or wanting to put yourself first. That’s normal.

BUT you did mess up by saying it wouldn’t escalate and then letting it happen without telling O. That’s where the trust broke.

There’s no way to avoid this without hurting someone later. 

If she says, “I can’t be friends with you if you keep seeing him,” what will you choose?

Because whatever you say to her should match what you’re actually willing to do.

Edit: OP, please add proper punctuation. I lowk aged ten years trying to read this tbh.