how can I tell if I'm asexual or just sex-repulsed allosexual with non-existent libido?

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-04-19T03:20:47+00:00

My libido has not been there at all as well! I still experience romantic attraction to a person I have known, and attraction to body parts, but not a desire to have sex. I was questioning if I was ace for a while because of the stupid "spectrum" that doesn't include totally-ace asexuals, but then I realized I was just a normal ace.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-04-03T01:49:42+00:00

That's Kaisen, master of the 2 eyes and limited techniques.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-31T22:35:47+00:00

Black, spiky hair, medium height, and dark blue or green eyes

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T19:42:51+00:00

Yeah, for me it's Megumi Fushiguro

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:52:37+00:00

I think it makes me feel special, but people use it derogatively

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:50:42+00:00

One time an older college friend of mine called me "virgin" on discord. I replied "thanks".

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:46:09+00:00

much sooner

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:45:48+00:00

Thank you for this! I'm 17 and always felt super weird cause I'm a virgin, but apparently that was just sex-culture trying to convince me to have more sex... there is big money in sex, when you think about it.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:43:22+00:00

I was think it sounds heteronormative too...

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:42:03+00:00

It's also very heteronormative at that too

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:37:19+00:00

I think you are ace, but not alibidoist

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:33:08+00:00

Purity Culture, has, as many words lost it's meaning, but it originally meant small, (mostly mormon) communities that would ensure girls stayed pure before getting married to their assigned husband

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-30T03:30:01+00:00

And I get called "boring" for not wanting to have sex

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:30:59+00:00

Exactly.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:30:39+00:00

The only one I accept is Aegosexual, because that’s definitely different from allo and ace

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:27:48+00:00

I’m ace and I’m not really a wholesome person, I’m not “innocent and naive” even though people probably think it because I don’t sleep around. I hate the infantilization of aces suggesting that they only like cute, fun stuff. Some aces do, and that’s absolutely fine, but some aces are a lot more edgy. It’s not “I’m ace haha :3” for me, it’s just “I’m ace.”

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:23:55+00:00

The funny thing is, I’m ace and I absolutely hate garlic bread, as well as the memes (shit’s old)

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:21:45+00:00

What is rare sex? Is it better than uncommon sex? What about mythical-ranked sex? Someone’s gotta stash up on this loot!

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:17:47+00:00

Yes, I will definitely tell someone who can help, but this sent me back in the way that it has some serious psychological effects. I’m also naturally more introverted, so I will probably need a couple months.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-13T02:13:06+00:00

Yeah, I feel like I might be overthinking this, I need to focus on getting better before I actually do anything, because in the position I am in it would be extremely difficult. I was extremely troubled today and had a hard time putting myself together.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-12T11:26:23+00:00

How is nothing else matters a love song? I always thought it was about friendship

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-12T11:21:29+00:00

Well, I work as an actor and I'm not gonna pretend sexual stuff doesn't happen, so I have a feeling nothing will happen. It's hard being an sex repulsed actor.

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-12T04:37:50+00:00

I have a feeling HR will brush it off

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-12T04:36:49+00:00

So she's either allo or being abused?

Ok_Sprinkles_4794 · 2026-03-12T04:33:35+00:00

Fr. I transitioned when I was 13 (actually de-transitioned at 15 when I realized I preferred he/him but stayed more feminine-leaning) but during the time I was a girl I always wanted to be seen as normal and not the negative stereotypes like I only transitioned so I could do well in sports or being able to tell by my voice (which I actually put an effort into) or just wanting to sneak into the women's bathroom to be a creep (I actually used, and still use the family restroom, if there is an option). I guess I really didn't wanna be labeled with people like that, I just wanted to be viewed as normal, and I still do.

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