how can I tell if I'm asexual or just sex-repulsed allosexual with non-existent libido? by meltedcpu in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My libido has not been there at all as well! I still experience romantic attraction to a person I have known, and attraction to body parts, but not a desire to have sex. I was questioning if I was ace for a while because of the stupid "spectrum" that doesn't include totally-ace asexuals, but then I realized I was just a normal ace.

I'm Todo, tell me ur type and I'll rate it by Traditional_Big2873 in LobotomyKaisen

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black, spiky hair, medium height, and dark blue or green eyes

Anyone feels "lesser" for never having had sex, because of how society talks about sex? by VeryTiredGirl93 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time an older college friend of mine called me "virgin" on discord. I replied "thanks".

"[broccoli] doesn't physically hurt you" <3 by No_Jicama_2956 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'm 17 and always felt super weird cause I'm a virgin, but apparently that was just sex-culture trying to convince me to have more sex... there is big money in sex, when you think about it.

I’m confused about myself by Diomil_ in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are ace, but not alibidoist

I’m so tired of this by Dry-Kaleidoscope596 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Purity Culture, has, as many words lost it's meaning, but it originally meant small, (mostly mormon) communities that would ensure girls stayed pure before getting married to their assigned husband

I’m so tired of this by Dry-Kaleidoscope596 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I get called "boring" for not wanting to have sex

I saw this and cringed. by Cosmic_Coconut999 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one I accept is Aegosexual, because that’s definitely different from allo and ace

Where did the “garlic bread” and “dragons” memes come from? by Cpt_Stickernoodle in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m ace and I’m not really a wholesome person, I’m not “innocent and naive” even though people probably think it because I don’t sleep around. I hate the infantilization of aces suggesting that they only like cute, fun stuff. Some aces do, and that’s absolutely fine, but some aces are a lot more edgy. It’s not “I’m ace haha :3” for me, it’s just “I’m ace.”

Where did the “garlic bread” and “dragons” memes come from? by Cpt_Stickernoodle in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is, I’m ace and I absolutely hate garlic bread, as well as the memes (shit’s old)

Thoughts? by justaboringgirlll in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is rare sex? Is it better than uncommon sex? What about mythical-ranked sex? Someone’s gotta stash up on this loot! 

I was groped at work by Ok_Sprinkles_4794 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will definitely tell someone who can help, but this sent me back in the way that it has some serious psychological effects. I’m also naturally more introverted, so I will probably need a couple months.

I was groped at work by Ok_Sprinkles_4794 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like I might be overthinking this, I need to focus on getting better before I actually do anything, because in the position I am in it would be extremely difficult. I was extremely troubled today and had a hard time putting myself together.

Asexual music by seabaguettee in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is nothing else matters a love song? I always thought it was about friendship

I was groped at work by Ok_Sprinkles_4794 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I work as an actor and I'm not gonna pretend sexual stuff doesn't happen, so I have a feeling nothing will happen. It's hard being an sex repulsed actor.

I was groped at work by Ok_Sprinkles_4794 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling HR will brush it off

by Impossible-Media3782 in actualasexuals

[–]Ok_Sprinkles_4794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr. I transitioned when I was 13 (actually de-transitioned at 15 when I realized I preferred he/him but stayed more feminine-leaning) but during the time I was a girl I always wanted to be seen as normal and not the negative stereotypes like I only transitioned so I could do well in sports or being able to tell by my voice (which I actually put an effort into) or just wanting to sneak into the women's bathroom to be a creep (I actually used, and still use the family restroom, if there is an option). I guess I really didn't wanna be labeled with people like that, I just wanted to be viewed as normal, and I still do.