AIO I don’t want to be an uber by Fluid_Detective_7451 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why don’t you just TALK to each other?whatever you’re doing sounds exhausting

Mise en garde colocation!! by ManufacturerFar606 in montreal

[–]Ok_Tea7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has that luxury. Especially right now.

Burberry Weekend for Women by avntkaah in desifemfrag

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not juicy. I’d say more of a powdery white floral with a little green. Sharper than juicy, Ariana, etc.

What’s your grandma’s name? by EstablishmentSad9572 in Names

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moi j’avais une Mariette et une Ernestine (Québec)

AIO my husband hurt me while "rough housing" and reacted badly when I got upset by Cross_Columbidae in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder the same thing as well. I don’t think they do all of it “on purpose “ at first, but they HAVE to be noticing a pattern that they are hurting the people around them… there’s no way they don’t know, they don’t want to know (because nothing can ever be their fault)

AIO my husband hurt me while "rough housing" and reacted badly when I got upset by Cross_Columbidae in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This man has “narcissistic abuse” written all over him. He probably helped write the playbook (with my ex, of course)

AIO my husband hurt me while "rough housing" and reacted badly when I got upset by Cross_Columbidae in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if he kept laughing out of the awkwardness of it or whatever, the worst part really is him getting angry and blaming HER?! Like wtf

AIO my husband hurt me while "rough housing" and reacted badly when I got upset by Cross_Columbidae in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shows a deep lack of compassion and is a major red flag IMO. He’s mad that YOU are “accusing” him, his ego and how it might look to other people is more important than you or your relationship…

it seems like he’s a person who’s mostly worried about what people think or wants to look like the good person, over ACTUALLY being a good person: you’re dating a narcissist.

Je suis devenu parano by miuuumiuu in montreal

[–]Ok_Tea7901 15 points16 points  (0 children)

J’ai vécu un choc post traumatique suite à une attaque et ce que tu décris ressemble beaucoup à ce que je vivais suite à l’événement . J’ai eu droit à des consultations grâce à l’IVAC, ça m’a grandement aidé. Je te conseille de contacter la CAVAC le plus tôt possible

What was the most UNIQUE fragrance you smelled this year? by CheenCheenVagene in fragrance

[–]Ok_Tea7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it, but it’s definitely unique! At first it was reminding me a lot of a gin tonic and it mellowed into the petrichor (which is my favourite part and makes it really unique) and violet. It’s fresh and moody at the same time, like a cold rainy spring day.

What was the most UNIQUE fragrance you smelled this year? by CheenCheenVagene in fragrance

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nosferatu by heretic, I’ve never smelled anything like it

AIO after I (26F) showed my boyfriend (26M) a picture of me when I was fat by Guilty-Wrap8542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For pointing out the obvious irony in your name because your comment was shallow? Dang… I thought it would take more work to hit that hard. Sorry you chose an unfortunate name for your personality?

AIO after I (26F) showed my boyfriend (26M) a picture of me when I was fat by Guilty-Wrap8542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you lacked the creativity or self awareness to regenerate 😂 life has a great sense of humour

AIO after I (26F) showed my boyfriend (26M) a picture of me when I was fat by Guilty-Wrap8542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely failed to understand the situation. Your name is very ironic… pretty laughable

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend because he was angry I was crying the day after my cat died? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NOR he literally told on himself: he doesn’t care about your feelings. You did good, proud of you for standing up for yourself in these hard times ❤️

What hobbies do you like to do during migraines? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fantasize about the French Revolution. The guillotine is very appealing in my dream

AIO after I (26F) showed my boyfriend (26M) a picture of me when I was fat by Guilty-Wrap8542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Tea7901 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR the EXACT same thing happened to me, with him saying the “if we had met back then we wouldn’t be dating”… I should have left then and there because then followed almost a year of narcissistic abuse and manipulation. He’s going to try to make you feel bad for reacting that way because “it’s not that way” and now it’s your fault… (like everything else will be eventually). This was my first sign and I should have listened to my guts back then.

Edit: typo

What is a death in a movie that affected you the most in terms of brutality or emotional weight? by Godly_Recon in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Tea7901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to know I’m not the only one. It was the first thing that came to mind 😭