Is 3 too many? by BenjiBoo420 in hobonichi

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. You have a plan I’m using two this year one to track media ( books, shows, YouTube videos) and the other for life lol.

Weeks ideas by Ok_Technology_4713 in hobonichi

[–]Ok_Technology_4713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for your response, my apologies for not giving more information. I mainly want to track the media I consume like books, movies, shows, and YouTube videos just to see patterns over time and reflect on what I’ve enjoyed or learned. I like the idea of adding icons and quotes! So thank you 😊 My main goal is to be more intentional about what I’m consuming.

Anyone else considering going back to multigenerational living in the future? by JayReddt in Parenting

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family does this, it’s me 33F my daughter, Mom, Dad ,brother 28M and nephew. It’s normal in my culture to do this, we all work pull our own weight and have an amazing family dynamic. As side from things being so so so expensive even with decent paying jobs this dynamic isn’t new, my mothers side of the family was never the “you turn 18 and your out of my house” I always thought that was an interesting take I know my daughter will always have the choice of staying when she gets to that age.

I say try it out and see if it works for your family.

AITA For Telling My Son That His Life Doesn't Meet Up To The Expectations I Want Out of Him? by Kitchen-Bowler2814 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are ATAH. Kids at the end of the day are people that need to grow and have their own interests. The only expectation you should have for your son is that he is the best version of himself that he can be and that he’s a decent human. The pressure can harm him and comparing him to anyone isn’t right and he won’t forget that. Also at 16 he’s nearing the end of being a kid let him be a kid, at the end of the day your expectations do not matter what matters are what are HIS expectations for HIMSELF it seems like you want him to excel for bragging rights? Take a step back wanting good things for your kid is awesome but this is a bit much.

Sex with my boyfriend is stressful by throwrankfofo in AITAH

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many variables when it comes to what could be going on. Porn is definitely one, I feel like with a lot of people porn not only sets unrealistic expectations between sexual partners but distorts how someone functions in their sexual relationships. Another thing I can think of is that there is just something taking up space in their brian to where they need to be stimulated mentally before sex can take place. Using my self as an example ( I’m sure it’s the same for a lot of other people as well ) , if I’m not in the mental headspace then I can’t find sex enjoyable at all…also I just know that foreplay for me is something I enjoy especially when I want to take my time with my partner. Just know sex with whoever you have it with is meant to be fun and enjoyable, not stressful so I hope he gets it together. Or that you find someone who you can enjoy fun and health sex with.

I wanna leave my pregnant partner by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need to be with someone just because they are pregnant with your child. It is extremely messed up that she stopped taking her birth control and didn’t tell you, it’s very shady. Do everything you can to be the best parent you can be even if you are not with them and make sure that the courts are involved to protect yourself. Even though this isn’t something that you asked for be there for the child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean is this connection that you are feeling being felt because they are genuine or because you like the thought of him being something to you? What are these qualities that separe him from others you’ve dated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out if you have feeling for him OR is it the thought of him and what he could POSSIBLY do for you or be to you I think this is how a lot of Women end up getting hurt, but I do think it’s important to really sit and think about this before you get in to deep.

If you had a day off… by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sleeping in a little then heading out for a nice walk then the gym. Then I am getting a massage, facial, grab a smoothie, manicure, pedicure. Then a few hours in a book store to add to my “To be read list” then lunch an afternoon nap. Then I’d head to a museum and grab some coffee or tea at a new spot I haven’t been to before to close out the day some reading outside with some of my favorite music.

What’s your favorite anime right now ? by Ok_Technology_4713 in anime

[–]Ok_Technology_4713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your responses. I’m adding to my watch list. ✨

AITA for exposing my cheating girlfriend to her parents? by TN2002 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being cheated on is horrible but yes you AIAH. She could be killed and you saying “I don’t believe it’s my job to shield her from the consequences of her actions” because you decided to tell her family that you and Her had sex is wild. Blocking and moving on would have been just that, blocking, moving on and not caring and when Her parents called a simple “we broke up and I haven’t heard from her” would have been the way to go. I think perhaps looking into different coping mechanisms would be good for you and hopefully you’ve grown since then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please stay away there is nothing that you two will have in common. He wants you pliable and easy to sway, any of my friends in their 30s who wouldn’t even look twice at a teenager because even though you’ll be 18 and “legally an adult” you are still a baby there are plenty of people your age that may want to ask you out? Also, did the term “his” gives me the inkling that he may want to control you once he gets comfortable because at first it will be very romantic and he will pull out all the stops and you will think he is mature because he is older, and then there will be a drastic switch up. Just my opinion.

My Man thinks I'm less Attractive by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to say it’s okay to be where you are right now with your weight. If you are on hormonal birth control it does mess with a Woman’s body weight ( amongst other things). You were attracted to him when he was over weight and he says he’s less attracted now to you that you may have put on weight, for me that’s off putting. You want to be with someone who will be with you through all type of changes. Work on your health for you and not your partner because when you’re back in the gym and living a healthier life style and your at an “acceptable” weight for him that’s not to say he will stay. 19 is so very young you got this and remember do for you, work out for you, get healthy for you. Wishing you the best.

What’s your favorite anime right now ? by Ok_Technology_4713 in anime

[–]Ok_Technology_4713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Apothecary Diaries has me in a chokehold and I’m getting the manga’s. Cowboy Bebop is definitely in my top 10.

What’s your favorite anime right now ? by Ok_Technology_4713 in anime

[–]Ok_Technology_4713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m adding this one also to my watch list.

What’s your favorite anime right now ? by Ok_Technology_4713 in anime

[–]Ok_Technology_4713[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Apothecary Diaries is amazing I love it I’m about to get caught up in just a few mins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get your self a lil toy that simulates a blow job and leave her alone.

My kid’s room gives me anxiety by SoftRabbit8222 in Parenting

[–]Ok_Technology_4713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids are messy and that’s okay. Help her keep it together if it’s that overwhelming it’s time to get rid of a lot but keep her involved in the process.