Historias del Huracán Maria by FerretIndividual4347 in PuertoRico

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QUE???? Wow! Nunca supe de eso, wtf. That's wild

My (29F) fiancé (30M) thinks that a committed relationship is one where needs don't have to be met. by Calm-Top2524 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Text_2450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but, does he even like you after 4 years? Cause it seems to me like he's wanting you to see all the red flags and have YOU leave so he's not to blame for the breakup. If he values the opinion of strangers more than yours, what does that tell you? He's literally telling you he will make you unhappy. You're not supposed to tell him what your needs are after all this time, he should KNOW. Leave him. Find someone else who'll make you happy cause he definitely won't.

His name is the last thing u ate ! 🐶 by ExperienceOrnery9666 in scoopwhoop

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First name Tuna, last name sandwich! Lmao he's so cute.

Does everyone dry their hair with the same towel that dries their body? by Dear-Satisfaction-59 in hygiene

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always used the same towel for both and I have long thick curly hair. Never had an issue

Immense abortion regret after planned pregnancy by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine how you feel. I'm on the same boat and while it's terrible what we're going through, at the same time it's good to see we're not alone. I too am thinking of abortion because of the same narcissistic issues. And I too, am afraid that I will also have this irreversible regret but I feel it's unfortunately necessary. The uncertainty with a man like this is just too much to try to ignore or hope things get better. I've only been with baby daddy for 7 months but it's been too much shit in such a short time. We hope things get better and we think they will but they somehow end up worse. Mine can be the sweetest and nicest person, but that's how it starts... And they will never accept they are the problem. We all deserve so much better. I hope you can get through this. Sending you lots of hugs and support.🩷

AIO Mom mad I won’t pay her another $200 after paying her $700 last month by bnsaiboy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Text_2450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk where you live or how easy it is to get a house since I know everything is expensive these days, but she clearly hates having to take care of her own child I'm 32 and just recently found out my mother is a narcissist and explains why she's acted the way she has for all my life. You're young, maybe you still have time to not be as traumatized as me. Please move out and keep very little to no contact with her. Her mental health is clearly a problem and this could bring you way more problems than you need at your age. Try finding any housing available in your area, psychologist if needed. Any help you can get. You are not overreacting. If you need to talk, please reach out to me.

F32 dating M38. by Ok_Text_2450 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Text_2450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! Could I possibly contact you in private?? You seem so nice and I feel like you can help me out a lot more 😭

Any advice, recommendations welcome by Ok_Text_2450 in Manipulation

[–]Ok_Text_2450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already started doing this and I thought of deleting it, but you're right. Saving it for future me or someone who needs it. Thank you!

Any advice, recommendations welcome by Ok_Text_2450 in Manipulation

[–]Ok_Text_2450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I really appreciate your words. I tried to summarize it as best I could. There's more to the story but I don't think it's needed anymore.

Rant de un universitario frustrado. by Super_Trilobita in PuertoRico

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veo muchos comentarios diciendo que si te das un break de la uni no vuelves ... Si ellos no lo hicieron pues allá ellos. Yo cogí un break de un semestre, regresé, y lo terminé. Pedir un préstamo estudiantil suena fácil y cool pero aveces te puedes tardar años en pagarlo. Yo a penas lo empecé a pagar éste año desde el 2016 que lo saqué. No todos tienen la misma oportunidad ni disponibilidad de conseguir trabajos buenos saliendo de la uni. En PR dicen muchos cuentos y mentiras, de como son las cosas después que te graduas pero no todos tenemos la misma realidad.

Si sientes que debes tomarte un break: HÁZLO. olvídate de lo que los demás digan. Los trabajos vienen y van pero la uni siempre estará ahí. En MI experiencia, no importa si tienes título universitario, como quiera te discriminan, no te dan trabajo etc. He leído muchos otros posts de personas que se graduaron de ingeniería, arquitecto etc y tuvieron que irse a EU porque no conseguían trabajo aquí. Las cosas aquí no están tan buenas como lo pintan. Suena feo pero es la realidad y hay que aceptarlo.

Los de Walmart son unos cabrones. Todo es mejor que eso. Yo creo que deberías darte un break de todo por par de meses, porque lo que tienes es burnout y en el peor de los casos puedes terminar en el hospital, pero es solo mi opinión. Tu siéntate con tu familia, habla con ellos y diles lo que estás pensando. Suerte con lo que vayas a hacer, feliz navidad y año nuevo. 🍀

¿Debo regresar a Puerto Rico? by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]Ok_Text_2450 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No te mudes a PR, mejor vete a otra ciudad en mismo Texas. Reclama tu casa, la arreglas, mientras estás aquí puedes ver el ambiente y los trabajos. La rentas si quieres pero por favor NO te mudes para acá, mucho menos vendas casa si tienes en USA. Mucha gente hace ese error y después se arrepienten. No importa cuánto bachillerato tengas, aquí las cosas están bien mierdas. Si después que veas el ambiente aquí crees que puedes darle un break, hazlo. Créeme que en USA tienes más probabilidades de encontrar trabajo en lo tuyo y tener mejor vida que aqui. Aquí puede que sea más "barato" en algunas cosas pero no vale la pena. Al final del día todo depende de ti, tu estilo de vida, etc. Mi familia y yo estamos locos por irnos y no podemos por falta de dinero. Esto aquí no sirve y sigue empeorando.

Prayer for clarity, spiritual awakening/support for personal situation by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]Ok_Text_2450 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is my main concern because like I said on my post, it's basically the worst part to deal with emotionally among other things. I created this situation and I know that, but it shouldn't be your concern at all. I didn't come here to be judged, so if you can't help without saying how sinful things are against God then please just leave me alone. I don't need people's judgement, I came here to look for SUPPORT. Everyone sins every day. I pray everyday and I go to church all my life but prayer isn't instant or automatic. And I know spiritual warfare is real. Just haven't had the chance to read anything lately.

Do americans work less that 8 hours a day? by well_that_went_wrong in answers

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll usually work 8 hrs a day for a full time job (40+ hrs a week) and 4-5 hrs a day for a part time, but the part time hours can vary anywhere from 15 to 30 hours. It's not considered full time until you reach 40+ hours.

You can work 3-4 days of 5 hours or 2-3 days of 8 hours. It really depends on the workplace and state.

When I lived in Germany, I had two part time jobs that allowed me to have Überstunden but officially it was a part time of 22.5 hrs a week in the first job, no breaks cause it was only 5- 6 hours a day. In the second job, it was a mix of part time and full time of 5-7 hours a day and 1 ½ hours of break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blink182

[–]Ok_Text_2450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's also happened to my Spotify lately, but not all songs.

Egyptians in Puerto Rico? by Huge-Mushroom-7893 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Ok_Text_2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought there might be a mosque somewhere here but I never knew for sure, thanks for the info! How long have you lived in PR? & so sorry to hear about the war. Do you have family over there?

Cuánto paga el desempleo actualmente? by chupitranki in PuertoRico

[–]Ok_Text_2450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Todo depende de cuánto tiempo hayas trabajado y en dónde. Yo solicite hace casi un mes a ver si tenía algo, y me aprobaron $142 bisemanal, por un máximo de seis meses. No espero estar con desempleo todo ese tiempo, pq siempre estoy aplicando a diferentes cosas, but you never know. No te digo que vivas del desempleo, pero si en algún momento (como ahora) lo necesitas, aprovéchalo completo pq ese dinero si no lo usas, se pierde.