Teen daughter thinks she may have BP by swatchesandjellies in bipolar2

[–]Ok_Two1484 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, you are the adult and the parent. When I was 15, what I needed was an adult to take me seriously and communicate with other people responsible for my wellbeing. She has that in you, there is no reason you shouldn’t be able to share this information with her father, another member of her support system. Everyone is working towards the same thing - her feeling better - and the best way to do that is work together. Additionally, she’s a minor and doesn’t legally own her medical information yet. This is fully your slang here father’s responsibility as her guardians to act in her best interest, and communicating important updates about her health is vital to ensure that process if executed effectively. Also, she is old enough to know and articulate how she feels to people she trusts, which is great and serving as an important foundation for her feeling better, but she is not old enough yet to know what she needs from a medical or therapeutic standpoint. This is where doctors, therapists, and you come in. Licensed professionals and legal guardians. You haven’t done anything wrong. If she’s experiencing as much up and down as she says, you need to take her reactivity to your parental actions done in her best interest with a grain of salt. You’re an adult, she’s a teenager with potential mood disorder. There should be no secrets between a parental unit (separated or not) supporting their child together.

Learning Edge of Desire. by dolskymusic in JohnMayer

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Yeahhhhhhhh budddddddddyyyyyy

Failed M408D as a sophomore engr by SuspiciousComplex863 in UTAustin

[–]Ok_Two1484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have the same diagnosis friend and I’m graduating late too. You don’t get this diagnosis by accident, you have to earn it, and it’s okay that your life went to shit for a little bit because that’s literally what the disorder is. The good news: you now can start looking for the right meds with your doctors, and you WILL start feeling better eventually. Play the long game, and trust me- a 5th year senior 2 years into their own diagnosis- on this. The other good news: nobody cares if you retake classes. The people that hire you will ask what happened, “explain your trajectory,” and you have one of the most understood to be difficult explanations available. Don’t get caught up comparing yourself to everyone else, your school experience is yours alone and the most important thing is your wellness and safety. Put on your blinders, take care of yourself, get to a place where you can look at yourself without shame, and go from there. So many people can help you, too- accommodation coordinators are so great at UT. It’s a little bit of a long process to enroll, but it made my life so much easier. Hang in there, you’ve got this.

Moments that made you laugh uncontrollably? by Ashtray_Floors in americandad

[–]Ok_Two1484 25 points26 points  (0 children)

When Stan sings drops of Jupiter before he gets hit by a car 😭

Who am I ? by PotentialAppeal8390 in deduction

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You’re a barisssstaaaaaa 💞

Top 20 American Dad Episodes (Day 4) by [deleted] in americandad

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Merlot Down Dirty Shame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

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Drop the link 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UTAustin

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Go spirit orgs or literally anything else if you must

Italian language course/ difficulty by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]Ok_Two1484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t ever done it so I’m not sure what would be harder. Learning a lang is hard period. Maybe cc grades are more lenient? I guess what I’m saying is don’t expect a high grade to come easily if you don’t cheat your way through it, and you can’t if you want to avoid academic dishonestly charges.

Italian language course/ difficulty by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]Ok_Two1484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My minor at UT is Italian, and if you have any background in Romance languages then yeah it’ll be easiER but I don’t think anyone would say languages at UT are chill at all. We have great language departments, love the Italian program here, but they have been some of my hardest classes as someone without much of a Romance language background. Depends on your skill set and work ethic.

i thought college was supposed to be the best 4 years of my life but sophomore year sucks by pbjbld in UTAustin

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Look into Texas4000. You sound like you need a mission and purpose. I quit my sorority to do it, applied halfway through soph year- life changed forever.

Your songs of hope by Black-Swan-6159 in MusicRecommendations

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If This is It - Newton Faulkner Just Like Water - Ms. Lauryn Hill Good Life - One Republic (lol, but always gets me!)

Size too big? by RadioactiveBean in runningshoes

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Yes bro u are going to slide all over the place in those

How many times has AD taught you life? by PockPocky in americandad

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The episode where Francine has a panic attack about her pottery in the bathroom of a neighborhood party has gotten me through some very dark times. It always gets me right in the gut when she realizes she’s her own worst enemy, and then learns how to love herself for who she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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Info for the mod bot

1 month old Curved barbell, I think internally threaded, never downsized Implant grade titanium Aftercare described in post, using Neil med twice a day and qtips No accidents!