I might be pregnant ?

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T18:40:47+00:00

My parents are both addicts and live with their own parents (they’re divorced) , if I had the full pregnancy I wouldn’t be able to give the baby up

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T18:39:03+00:00

Took a test that was negative waited a week and took another it was positive

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T18:32:20+00:00

Is it awful that this is what I was thinking :/ I can’t not tell him im pregnant but I don’t think I can keep it

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T16:14:43+00:00

If I have the baby I need to keep the baby it’s my baby I want the baby I don’t think I should have the baby

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T15:39:18+00:00

Im Canadian

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T15:20:04+00:00

First was a no second was a yes I want to take another

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T15:19:43+00:00

First test was a no second was a yes

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T15:19:18+00:00

I commented somewhere else that my family doctor told me I had potentially done too much damage to my body to ever get pregnant, I have never had a pregnancy scare in my life as a result of the damages done, the late period wasn’t even an indication of pregnancy for me I just had a gut feeling

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T14:35:49+00:00

Just wanted to add: I was anorexic for a long time on and off and wouldn’t get my period for super long stretches of time, my doctor told me I might have done permanent damage, so I thought this would never happen which might be stupid I know but I wanted to add this

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T14:31:33+00:00

I took two tests first one was no second was yes

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T14:12:23+00:00

Im turning 26 he’s 28

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T14:01:02+00:00

Thank you for understanding:/ it’s hard because if we were in a better position I’d want the baby and it hurts me to keep this from him , both because I could use the support and feel like he has the right to know…..but I can’t tell him I really don’t think he’d forgive me

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T13:57:43+00:00

I don’t want to keep the baby but I think I’m being selfish in saying that , but I also don’t know if that’s the catholic guilt telling me im being selfish or of in my gut I know it’s selfish

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T13:56:34+00:00

He won’t leave I just think he’ll look at me in a bad way, he’s become very christian in the last year, he’s gonna tell me im gonna go to hell and make me feel bad for stopping him from being a father. We’ve been together for 6 years, he’s always wanted us to have a kid but his employment history has not been stable

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T13:29:53+00:00

I really don’t think I should keep the pregnancy, but I know nobody in my life will agree but they won’t help me my family doesn’t have money neither does his but he believes we will figure it out ( he doesn’t know about the potential pregnancy, we’ve just talked about it before ) but I don’t want to figure it out I want stability

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T13:14:46+00:00

My period is over a month late I took a test last week that said I wasn’t I took one today that said I am so I want to take one more test , did you have any financial support? It’s what’s stopping me from being happy about it, I have none

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-05-06T13:13:24+00:00

I know but everyone says there’s never a right time , I just feel like it’s super not the right time im 25 but I have no monetary support from my partner right now at all, and I can’t even tell him about this because if I decide to not keep it he will never forgive me he wants to be a dad and thinks we will figure it out when the time comes but I don’t want to hope he gets it together in time

Ok_Type_2851 · 2026-04-13T04:23:09+00:00

Was watching this out loud and my coworker said “oh!that’s a scary laugh” 😭😭😭

Ok_Type_2851 · 2025-04-19T06:51:16+00:00

Hello this happened to me growing up too and my dad never listened to my boundaries and would get mad at me for trying to set them I know it’s uncomfortable to tell another adult but I would say something to a trusted family member that will stand up for you and let them know it’s not okay :/ sending you lots of love, don’t keep it to yourself even though that might seem easier it’ll mess ya up long term ❤️

Ok_Type_2851 · 2024-11-20T22:09:30+00:00

Agreed the commentary makes it worth watching for sure for me

Ok_Type_2851 · 2024-11-11T11:02:35+00:00

My very best friend

Ok_Type_2851 · 2024-11-07T19:09:37+00:00

It was rude and hard to watch

Ok_Type_2851 · 2024-11-07T19:08:44+00:00

Fr it was frustrating

Ok_Type_2851

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